(Closed) To ask or not to ask that is the question

posted 12 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2695 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I personally don’t mind the uneven numbers. We have 6 and 4.  Think of your SIL as being someone that you will have in your life for years to come.  You probably will become really close.  Good luck

Post # 4
1091 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2021 - Oakland Manor

I’d just ask her. Apparently it’s a cultural thing to do in England (ask your Future Sister-In-Law…though I’d never met her when we got engaged…) and I found later that people had thought I would do it.  You’re likely to become close in the future, she’s nice, I’d just ask her ๐Ÿ™‚  This could be your way to get to know her better.

Post # 5
483 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I say ask definately-I understand the need to keep it even-I feel the same way.  Ask her-it will be fun!!

Post # 6
2640 posts
Sugar bee

Yeah, I would too.  Of course I’m into even BPs too.  But she seems to be ready, willing, and able to be a good helper.  And you will probably see her for many events in the future.

Post # 7
250 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’d ask her too! It sounds like even though you don’t know her that well, she’s excited and ready to help. 2 very good qualities for a bridesmaid.

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