Post # 1
So according to my calculations tomorrow should be my O day. We BD yesterday and planned to again tomorrow, but today I have a heavy amount of EWCM. Now most things I have read say to only BD every other day. So, if I am actually O’ing today, should we BD today since we did yesterday or still wait until tomorrow? Who knew there would be so much planning to BD!!
Post # 2
If you BD yesterday then there will most likely be little spermies waiting. BUUUUT it couldn’t hurt to BD again today. That is just my thoughts though.
Post # 3
If the spirit moves you, do it! But if not, don’t force it. Maybe split the difference and have morning sex tomorrow?
Post # 4
If you notice a lot of EWCM, I’d go for it. Studies show that BDing every 48 hours is just as good as every 24 hours, but it doesn’t hurt to do it every 24 hours. It’s when you’re doing it like 2+ times a day that you could hurt your chances…I believe. The day before O is also shown to be statistically better than O day so I’d do it!
Post # 6
I think I remember reading something like this.
If you would like to BD, then BD. I would. Every day isn’t going to decrease his sperm potency.
Post # 7
Might as well, it’s not going to make you un-pregnant 🙂
Post # 8
I BD every time I saw ewcm but didn’t on O day And got pregnant. We actually started way early and bd every day for 2 weeks, so clearly every day is ok lol.
with my first we only BD once and it was either 1 or 2 days before O.
Post # 9
I had the same question yesterday! Never would have guessed I’d be asking internet strangers when to have sex lol 🙂
Post # 10
I would bd today to be safe!
Post # 11
Yes I would! We BD ED in FW and it has gotten me KU 4 times. Everything I have read says that the only time EOD is best is if you know your DH has supply issues otherwise every day is best!
Post # 12
Do it! It won’t hurt and it might help. Most men “recharge” pretty well after 24 hours, so it’s not going to affect his supply for tomorrow.
“For healthy couples who want to conceive, there’s no such thing as too much sex… Daily intercourse during the days leading up to ovulation might increase the odds of conception. Although your partner’s sperm concentration is likely to drop slightly each time you have sex, the reduction isn’t usually an issue for healthy men.” http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/getting-pregnant/in-depth/how-to-get-pregnant/art-20047611
Post # 13
Just wanted to add, I had back to back IUI’s a few weeks ago and my husbands sperm count was actually higher the second day… So clearly everyday does not hurt!!
Post # 14
I would today!! Thing is if you O tomorrow it could be in the middle of the night/or morning (you dont exactly know what time it happens) and if you dont BD until say…. tmrw night… then you might miss it. I mean your prob covered by BD yesterday (I got pg from BD from same timeline) …but you want the little swimmers to have time to make it 🙂 lol
really as another pp said, it wont make you unpregnant 😉
Post # 15
When in doubt, BD it out!