- 10 years ago
Okay so a little background I’ve been a polynesian dancer (AKA hula)for all my life and my mom has been doing it for like 40 years and mydad is a drummer for our group. We use to consider ourselvesprofessional because our group would compete and such incompetitions. Anyways,though i love dancing it’s fun and I don’t minddancing for luaus and such, but my mom keeps bugging me to do the Hawaiian wedding song which is a dance that talks about getting married. Here is the link to the song there are different verisons, but this is the one my mom has.
(NOTE THAT GIRL IS NOT ME) LOL Anyways so she wants me to dance this stupid song on my wedding day for Michael (Michael says he doesn’t care either way whatever makes me happy) and I about shit my pants when she told me this. One it is way easier to dance for people you don’t know and 100 times harder to dance for people you do know. I’ve always been like that I hate dancing for people I know and try never to get sucked into doing it and two dancing is my mother passion not mine yes I like dancing and yes I like performing, but I don’t really want polynesian dancing as apart of my wedding. Plus I think it will look retarded if I just randomly bring in polynesian stuff and the wedding does not have a ounce of hawaiian anything in it. I keep changing the subject everytime she brings it up, but now that my wedding is almost 3 months away. I feel like I better either start learning this horride cheesie ass dance or break her little heart and tell her that I don’t want to do it. I hate that song it’s horrible it’s cheesie and it will put everyone there to sleep except people that are obsessed with hula like my mother and my teacher and a few of the friends from our group everyone else will be bored to tears. Plus I’m on the spot enough with the wedding I’d rather not have another thing to stress over on if I mess it all up. What should I do? Should I suck it up and do the damn dance or let my mother down.