(Closed) To DIY or not to DIY

posted 8 years ago in Flowers
  • poll: Can I DIY these flowers?
    definately, you'll have help and you're making simple arrangements (& save $$) : (25 votes)
    54 %
    don't do it to yourself, that's going to require too much time and stress : (18 votes)
    39 %
    other : (3 votes)
    7 %
  • Post # 3
    3539 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    since Im not a florist, that would stress me out.. but if you have plenty of help! go for it!

    Post # 4
    621 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I think if you have help – then go for it! there is tons of information online how to make stuff, go for it!

    Post # 5
    6572 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: February 2010

    what time’s your rehearsal? i wouldn’t want to be up all night doing flowers, or rush through dinner because i have to do flowers.

    we’re having a rehearsal lunch, and we’re diying centerpieces after that. like your idea, it’s just cut the flower and plop it in the vase, no thought or arranging to it, very simple. and lots of help. i’m scared to do my bouquet and bouts though, so those i’m leaving to professionals. i’ll have to wait a week to let you know how it goes!

    Post # 7
    19 posts
    • Wedding: November 2009

    i made all of my own flowers and i started months in advance so i wouldn’t get stressed out. if you are able to make them and just store them somewhere in vases it’s the best way. then you can just put them where they go on the day of. i made my bouquet, 4 bridemaids, a pomander for the flower girl (which took at least 40 small flowers), 2 hanging pomanders and the corsaes for the mom’s. i did it every night for a few weeks as i had time and energy and i was done with months and months to spare. once you get the hang of it you can easily do it assembly line style. do a few practice ones first and then see how to set up the process. i.e. cut all of your petals, then shape them, then attach them, etc. for me it was totally worth the work.

    my bouquet

    mr bridesmaids

    for another bride who loves poppies

    Post # 8
    231 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    im doing the centerpieces, church flowers and Bridesmaid or Best Man bouquets myself, im getting mine done by a florist because its not as simple… im not doing bouts or corsages at all.. 

    Post # 9
    98 posts
    Worker bee

    It might be easier to handle DIY flowers if you use fake flowers for the bouquets and real ones for the centerpieces (or vise versa).  Then, you can do some stuff months in advance and only have a little left to do the day of the wedding.

    Post # 10
    2077 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    If you’re going with fake or real flowers, it’s totally do-able!  It will most likely take you a couple hours to get everything exactly the way you want it (trial and error, double checking, etc.), so make sure you allow yourself enough time.  Also, if you are using real flowers and are worried about their longevity, pop them into your fridge over night (don’t put it into the freezer, anything below 32 degrees will ruin the flowers).  Being in warmer temperatures will open up the blooms more and could cause the flowers to wilt prematurely.  I really would recommend doing a mock trial with your bouquet and make sure it’ll work for you.  🙂

    Post # 11
    1154 posts
    Bumble bee

    I think it’s totally doable but that you shouldn’t be involved in doing them.  Have your friends and family do it but do not plan on doing it yourself – that will be recipe for stress.  However, if you can trust someone to be in charge of the flowers and “let go” and realize that they might not be exactly how you envisioned I think you should definitely DIY.  Flowers are pretty – someone with good taste can make them look even prettier.  🙂 

    I’m having my mom in charge of all the flowers except for the bouts and corsages, since that’s more detailed complicated work.  I have zero worries on this score.  (My mom on the other hand – plenty worried.) 

    Post # 12
    140 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2008

    I say don’t because I did mine and I was up till 4am the day of my wedding.

    (Not to mention that I do this every week for other weddings and have experience)

    Post # 13
    2867 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I did a test run on making my own bouquet & one centerpiece – so I could figure out how many blooms to order and how long it would take to set up. The bouquet only took me about 30 mins – with 25 roses. This included taking each head and wiring it, wrapping each individual wire and then wrapping the wires together. My centerpieces are 3 julep cups with 40 roses total and have ribbons around them. But all my flowers were prepped ahead of time (cut/thorns & leaves removed).

    I think it you had help you could definitely get it done but maybe do it earlier in the day before the rehersal so you don’t have to stress out and stay up late.

    Hope that helps!

    Post # 14
    1580 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’d totally DIY the centerpiece vases. I’d leave the bouquets up to a professional. Maybe for the bouts you can do something that doesn’t require flowers so you can DIY them well in advance.

    Post # 15
    2239 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I think it would be pretty simple to do the centerpiece ones on your own. Have you considered buying some and trying it out to see if you think you can do it?

    It still might be affordable if you diy your centerpieces but then you outsource your bouquets. Just remember to use in season flowers. And try to use cheaper flowers like roses, hydrangeas, and carnations.

    Post # 16
    510 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2009

    If you didn’t want the stress of doing it yourself could you buy the flowers through fiftyflowers and hire someone on Craigslist to do the arranging?  Like PP’s said they might come out better than if you did it yourself…and you could give whatever price you could afford.

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