To enlist a paparazzi for when I propose or not?

posted 1 year ago in Proposals
  • poll: Should I hire a photography to get some surprise proposal snaps
    Hells yeah : (16 votes)
    41 %
    Don't even think about it : (17 votes)
    44 %
    Yes be only because I'm outgoing : (6 votes)
    15 %
  • Post # 16
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    2421 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Do you think she genuinely would want a photographer?

    Or are you thinking about hiring one because you think it’s something you’re supposed to do?

    I would have hated having a photographer – I don’t like being photographed and wouldn’t have liked the sense of pressure I would have felt (to be photo-ready during an intimate and possible emotional moment.).  

    Post # 17
    Member
    9173 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2013

    my husband arranged for his friend to take pictures.  i was happy he did that.

    Post # 19
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    1679 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    alreadywaitedtoolong :  i didn’t vote because I don’t know your SO.  I would have personally felt uncomfortable about it but my Darling Husband knows I’m not a photo person.  Other friends of mine would have absolutely loved it.  What’s your SO like? Does she enjoy posing for photos, does she take photos often? Or does she hide from the camera? Is she outgoing or introverted? 

    Post # 20
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    2421 posts
    Buzzing bee

    Hmm, if she said she want intimate, I’d lean towards no photographer.

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