Post # 16
Do you think she genuinely would want a photographer?
Or are you thinking about hiring one because you think it’s something you’re supposed to do?
I would have hated having a photographer – I don’t like being photographed and wouldn’t have liked the sense of pressure I would have felt (to be photo-ready during an intimate and possible emotional moment.).
Post # 17
my husband arranged for his friend to take pictures. i was happy he did that.
Post # 18
Thank you everyone for your input.
She is a bit of a selfie girl and we have plenty of photos of us on our walls. So I know she doesn’t mind photos.
She has mentioned before that she wants intimate, i.e. not at a ball game or in a crowded restaurant.
I just feel it would be nice to have photos of the moment. I know personally I go blank when I’m nervous so I definitely won’t remember the moment!
Post # 19
alreadywaitedtoolong : i didn’t vote because I don’t know your SO. I would have personally felt uncomfortable about it but my Darling Husband knows I’m not a photo person. Other friends of mine would have absolutely loved it. What’s your SO like? Does she enjoy posing for photos, does she take photos often? Or does she hide from the camera? Is she outgoing or introverted?
Post # 20
Hmm, if she said she want intimate, I’d lean towards no photographer.