Post # 1
Ladies! Need your input as I am completely stuck about doing a first look or not! There’s additional reasons but I’ve written the two biggest pros/cons.
Biggest Pro: natural light for couple photos (it’ll be too dark after our ceremony since its a fall wedding)
Biggest Con: I’d have to rush a bit the getting ready on the day of to make the timeline
Post # 3
@MochiBride: I’m definitely not doing one, but I’m generally apathetic about photos so the pros of the first look are kind of lost on me. I just want to save the first look moment for the aisle, I feel like it would be anticlimactic otherwise. But I know lots of people do them and love them so I think if your priority is to get a bunch of good photos the first look is probably a good bet.
Post # 4
We want to do one for a few reasons
1. I don’t want to do a lot of formal photographs after the wedding.
2. I want to see him before the ceremony (I know it will calm me down)
3. Our church doesn’t allow photographers anywhere but the back of the church and I would love to be able to capture his real reaction.
I was on the fence about it, but my Fiance won me over – he said I will handle the whole day better if he can give me a hug beforehand. He’s right!
Post # 5
We are not doing one. Fiance is super traditional about not seeing me before the wedding. Instead, we are doing a sunrise ceremony with pictures in daylight in right after and then an evening reception to follow that night. We’re also doing a destination wedding, so it’ll be cooler in the morning and in the evening and I didn’t want to be out in the sun during my ceremony or spend the entire day getting ready from like 12pm. So, there were a few reasons for doing it this way, but the main one was not seeing each other beforehand.
If you do a first look, I think you should see if you can do it at the ceremony site – have him stand at the altar and have you walk down the aisle to him. That’s how I would do it if I were doing a first look.
Post # 6
We did a first look and I would definitely not change it. How much would you actually have to rush to be ready on time? Our first look was at noon and I had plenty of time to get ready.
The pro for me was to get rid of the time gap between the ceremony and the reception. We have a wedding in a couple of weeks where there is a two hour time gap :/ That’s not enough time to go home and I don’t really want to go wander around a mall in my wedding wear! I also loved hanging out with my Darling Husband and the wedding party the rest of the day.
Also, it didn’t make our moment down the aisle any less special to us. We still got some great pictures of that!
Post # 7
We’re definitely doing one. I’ve never heard of a person that did one and regretted it, most say that it was the best decision. I think seeing my Fiance beforehand will be so much more intimate than with with a room full of people. I would do it if you can manage making the time work.
Post # 8
We did a first look, and I wouldn’t change a thing! DH’s reaction was something I will always remember, as well as the sweet words he said to me. It was priceless, and our favorite part of our day 🙂
Post # 9
we are doing them, we want our immediate family and wedding party photos done before the ceremony so all of our guests can enjoy cocktail hour.
i also think it will calm me a little before the ceremony.
you want to look your best so if you are rushed to get ready, i do not think it is a good idea.
Post # 10
- Wedding: August 2013 - Rocky Mountains USA
We did one and it was soooo great. It wasn’t so much for the photos (although we did get some nice photos out of it) but rather to get a little time together to be like “We’re doing this!!!!!” and just have a special few moments together.
Once the ceremony starts, your wedding day FLIES by in a haze of craziness – awesome, fun, joyful craziness, but crazy nonetheless. Having a few minutes ahead of time to JUST spend with my husband and soak it all in was invaluable.
Post # 11
I plan on doing one for photography sakes, butalso because I want sometime with Fiance before the insanity. 🙂
Post # 12
- Wedding: October 2014 - Greenbrier Country Club
You could always book the photog on another day to get the lighting you want.
Post # 13
@MochiBride: We did a first look and seriously the shots from the first look are my favorites. It was the calm before the storm and it was a quiet moment with just us and our immediate families. It was great. I
Post # 14
We did a first look and I liked it because we got a lot of our photos out of the way and it helped me not to cry so much during the ceremony. I always cry at weddings and thought I would be a mess at mine!!
Our ceremony didnt start until 6:30 so there was plenty of time in the day to get ready before we started taking pictures at 4ish.
Post # 15
My ceremony is at 5pm, and because of a sound ordinance in the community all weddings (not just at my venue, the whole area) must be over by 10:30pm. We are doing a first look and all posed family/wedding party photos before the ceremony so they are out of the way and we can enjoy the whole reception.
Post # 16
I think you should go for it.
We didn’t do them, because Darling Husband was dead set against it, he really wanted the first time he saw me to be when I came down the aisle. And I am totally fine with it. But if he had changed his mind I would have done a first look in a heartbeat!
Go for it!