- 4 years ago
- Wedding: September 2014 - Country Club
I got married last year and had a bridesmaid who didn’t give a card or gift for the wedding. (Or at my shower). On top of that, I paid for her dress and accommodations while she was in town. She is getting married next month. I bought my bm dress (which ended up being $70 more than her original stated budget for us), a plane ticket to Vegas as well as 3 night hotel stay. (The first night will be the Bachlorette party which will obviously be another costly expense) I am having a dilemma determining whether to give her money in a card at her reception… Or not. This is already turning out to be a very expensive weekend. Is “just a card” acceptable at this point?