(Closed) To go to wedding or not???

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I would decline.  Unless it’s someone I have a relationship with outside of work, I consider co-worker invitations to be courtesy invitations, doubly so when the invitee is the boss.

The insistence is weird, though.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I don’t think I would go if I didn’t actually receive an invitation and the people didn’t mean anything to me or my SO. 

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

Since you never got a formal invite I’d decline. Have your Fiance just tell him you have prior plans. 

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

Aw, I would want to go. I love weddings, and since it’s a worker I would go, even if I didn’t know him that well. It seems like your Fiance has made a lasting impression on this man, and that’s why he is asking him to go. No you didn’t get a formal invitation… but I can think of at least 3 people that I see around work, or just when I go shopping or golfing that I would REALLY like to invite to my wedding. Why? Because they are super nice and we have one of those lasting relationships where we pick back up every time we see each other. So I would go, but that’s just me.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

If my hubby wanted to go I would go as his date. The decision would be his.

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