(Closed) To have a wedding party or not?

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: After reading our situation I would choose:
    have your sister as MOH and FI brother as Bestman : (4 votes)
    17 %
    opt for no attendants : (20 votes)
    83 %
  • Post # 4
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    1839 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    i chose no attendants. you basically already sound like you don’t want them to be in the wedding & are just considering it b/c it “might be nice”.  also, it sounds like it would cause a ton of drama.

    Post # 5
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    7311 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2011 - Bed & Breakfast

    In your situation, having attendants would be way more effort and drama than it is worth. Your sister is passive-agressive and his brother is unreliable. Do those sound like personality traits that make for a good wedding party? I think not.

    Post # 6
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    8604 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: August 2012

    We had our siblings stand up for us (DH’s sister, my brother). His sister was fine and a lot of fun, but my brother was a nightmare. He’s young and not very responsible, and flaked on just about everything to go hang out with his girlfriend (who he’s been with for years, so it’s not like it was something new or important…). And I’m pretty damn sure he didn’t see it as an honor or anything to stand up with us lol. If I had a Destination Wedding I’d definitely nix the attendants.

    Post # 7
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    12247 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    You want a total flake and a verbally abusive monster in your wedding party?

    Why, exactly?

    I voted no party!

    Post # 10
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    1589 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2014

    I voted no bc they sound like jerks.

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