(Closed) To hell with it…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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2589 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Thats awesome…BUT!  I still strongly suggest not bringing it up anymore!  If he has the ring, he’s planning something, and constantly bringing it up is more likely to end up ruining a surprise or making him decide to wait until he thinks you’re not expecting it.

Post # 4
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580 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@annasaf83:  That was really hard to read as one big block, but I persevered.

If he is talking about the future even loosely, that is good.

If he has the ring, BRILLIANT!

My guy has had the ring since December, so I know the feeling and how it is really hard. And I am following Mr Bee’s Plan, but not strictly. I’m not bugging him or asking him for details, but if someone is getting engaged or there’s some funny story on the Bee I want to talk to him about, I do. In the mean time, I have my own goals that I am working to to keep me busy.

So basically, hang in there (easier said than done!) and you can always vent to us if neccessary πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Good news that you know he has the ring!!  I agree with some of the other posts suggesting that you drop the talk about it.  I know how hard it is.  I have bit my tongue so many times over the past couple months.  It wasn’t until I made my SO agree that neither one of us would bring up wedding talk anymore that things really turned a corner.  Turns out he had a plan and I really did not expect it!  You have to trust him.  My SO would not give me any info, although over the past year I have asked time and time again to get any kind of idea.  Finally in November, he gave me a timeline (although he was very hesitant)  Buying the ring is a huge step and I would be elated to know he is taking action and will be asking eventually.

Post # 7
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331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

Yay! He has the ring! πŸ™‚

I agree with the other bee’s. Im really happy for you and I bet that takes a load off of your mind. But be cautious (cause I know I would feel this way…) dont think everytime you guys go out or do somthing nice that “maybe tonight will be the night!” then if it doesnt happen you would be really upset and get ur hopes up. I know it would be driving me crazy!  Best of luck to your dear! cant wait to see the ring when it does happen! πŸ™‚

Post # 9
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1133 posts
Bumble bee

he has the ring!!!!!!!!

thats more info that i got girl (mainly bc im scared to know the answer lmao) just hold tight πŸ™‚ its coming. he has a plan…eeeeeeek!! so awesome

Post # 10
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Newbee

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