(Closed) To highlight or not to highlight. need some help!

posted 4 years ago in Beauty
Post # 3
5206 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

@hogoboom2012:  I think you could pull it off. Maybe just some face framing ones if you’re not sure about it.

Post # 4
11274 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

@hogoboom2012:  If the highlights are very subtle in color and as well as in thickness, (like the ones shown in that photo), you can get away with highlighting every 12 weeks. If you also need base color  to cover gray roots, however, that  really needs to be done at least every five or six weeks — some people do root touch ups at three weeks.

Unless you’re only having a demi-permanent color thrown on top of your natural hair just to cover the gray streaks and have THEM as your only highlights, highlighting your hair will involve permanent hair color and will require upkeep.

You’re beautiful, and you have beautiful hair.  You don’t need to start highlighting at this age, but I think those kind of highlights will look great on you.

ETA:  Well, in looking at that photo again, her highlights are pretty chunky, especially at the bottom. I would ensure that yours are not nearly that thick, because the thinner they are, the less obvious they’re going to be, and that’s important if you’re going to have three months of re-growth.




Post # 5
12257 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@hogoboom2012:  Leave it as-is! You have STUNNING natural highlights!

Post # 6
1809 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@hogoboom2012:  Your hair color is gorgeous! If you do add some highlights make sure they are thin and not too far off from your natural color so it’s not obvious when you need them done! Also, you can ask her to not put a foil at the top of your hair, that way your highlights will subtly show through your hair but because the two pieces on top will lay down with your natural color no one will see if you have an inch of roots hiding underneath! Hope that helped! 

Post # 7
2566 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@hogoboom2012:  That picture is exactly how I wanted my highlights done, and I ended up with really thin blonde and red streaks.  Seriously, how is that natural looking??  It did fade well and doesn’t look as obvious.  I haven’t had my haid died since then (it was June 2012) and I don’t think it looks horrible.  I want all those old highlights gone before I try.

I do think highlights like the picture would look great on you and wouldn’t be difficult to maintain or let grow out.

Post # 8
476 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

That’s a little more like a balayage color, which I love! It grows out very naturally so you don’t need touch ups nearly as often as regular highlights.

Post # 9
1123 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@hogoboom2012:  Have you thought about that balayage look? I might be confusing it with ombre but anyway… the basic idea is that your hair is dark/natural colour at the top and it gradually fades into a lighter colour:

Subtle, but with your length it would frame your face quite well. What I particularly like about it, is that it isn’t noticeable when it grows out because hair closer to your scalp/the top of your head is already dark/still natural, so it’s a good economical choice if you can’t afford to re-dye it regularly.

Post # 10
3341 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island

@hogoboom2012:  Absolutely do highlights!  They will add dimension and shine to your hair without changing your overall look too much.  Just tell the stylist you want something very natural and show that pic you found.  You’ll be beautiful and you’ll still look like you.  😉

Post # 12
3221 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

@ksus07:  this is spot on what I have, down to her natural and highlighted colours.

OP, I get balayage done ONCE A YEAR, which saves me a ton of money. My colourist paints on thin streaks of colour, and uses three different tones usually. She also places more near my face framing layers, and just a couple of streaks go up to my scalp. The first time I had it done, I was very subtle and I thought it was a waste of money, but I went back every 3 months (3 times in 9 months) until I achieved the right look. It’s been two years of annual upkeep, and I LOVE it. Sometimes when I go get my hair cut, they will add one or two streaks to blend it, and those times they usually don’t even charge me.

Post # 13
2029 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@hogoboom2012:  If you get a highlight that is similar to the picture youll be fine 3 months of growth.  When you go just a shade or two lighter its hard to notice when it grows out.  Thats what I have. 

Post # 14
8428 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

@hogoboom2012:  love love love that inspiration pic and think it would look lovely on you! I say go for it!

Post # 15
969 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Go for it! Highlights are NOT a big deal (as opposed to dying your whole head) and as long as your stylist knows what she is doing, you won’t regret it!

Post # 16
1296 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

Look into bayalage like PP have suggested or flamboyage. I have a very subtle, natural looking ombré. I only need to go into the salon about twice a year and it looks even better as it grows out. I’ve had different shades over the years from daker to lighter blonde. Here’s a few pictures 


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