(Closed) To include or not to include?

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
22 posts
  • Wedding: April 2013

your oma is a much bigger part of your life than your other grandparents, so having her walk down the aisle with your aisle with your mother will far more special for YOU and her. i think it would dilute the meaning if you had a whole bunch of people coming down the aisle just to keep the peace. if they were all as close to you as your oma it would be really special, but why shine the light on people you dont have such a special relationship with?

i can understand it may cause drama so perhaps you could set somthing aside to honour them,  i think its really easy to put other peoples feelings infront of your own but this is your day. there are only a few times in our lives when we can show everyone how special someone is to us and i think it would be something your oma will carry in her heart for the rest of her life.

choose you this time xx

Post # 5
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I agree with @daisy-chain. This is your special day. And having her with your mother seems like a nice touch. And since she’s not being escorted separately, I don’t see why it would be too big a deal. She’s with your mother. Two very important people. I think you’re fine here.

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