- 6 years ago
- Wedding: July 2015
Ok bees I need your opinions. Fiance and I were originally planning on having only the bridal party and parents walk down the aisle. Fiance has one grandmother alive who we don’t even know if she would be coming and I have my oma (grandma) and then 2 other sets of grandparents who I am not close to at all. One set lives in Ohio and I’ve only seen like 5 times in my life but I know they will come out for my wedding and the other set I see a few times a year but do not get along with them because my step-grandfather is for lack of better word a total asshole. They don’t feel like family but they are and will be somewhat a part of my life for many more years. But I am extremely close to my oma, she helped raise me, she has always been there for me, she is just an amazing woman who truly cares about me and has always been so generous towards us. I really don’t know where I or my family would be without her. I would love for her to walk done the aisle with my mom carrying a bouquet in remembrance for my opa (grandfather) who died a few years ago and was just as close to me as my oma is. Do you think it would be worth the drama to have just her walk done the aisle? His grandma won’t mind not walking all even if she does come but my grandparents from Ohio may mind and the other set will for sure raise hell about it. I really only want my oma to walk but I’m starting to wonder if I should just include them just to keep the piece. What do you bees think?