(Closed) To Invite or Not?

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I invite B?
    yes, (even though she will probably leave the reception b/c her baby) : (19 votes)
    86 %
    no, she might figure out that you never originally invited her. (just ignore her question to my BM) : (0 votes)
    tell her the truth? (she has planned a wedding herself and might understand...) : (3 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
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    1553 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    @red_rose:  Isn’t it possible that if the invitation was sent to the “wrong address” then the shower invitation was sent to that “wrong address” as well?

    Post # 3
    Member
    129 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: November 2011 - Palma Sola Botanical Park

    I would invite her if you want her there, which it sounds like it does. I wouldn’t make decisions for people regarding how long they’ll stay at the reception, etc. We invited people we knew probably wouldn’t even be able to make it to the wedding. Plus, you never know – she might end up closing the party down! You don’t have to lie. Just get in touch with her and ask for her updated address. Send the invite, and leave it at that.

    Post # 6
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    780 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    @red_rose:  Seems like she was trying to be gracious and give you a ‘way out’ in case there isn’t space for her to be invited…  I wouldn’t think anything of it. 

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