(Closed) To invite or not….

posted 3 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Honey bee

I second the idea, of a “big, fat no!”

Post # 3
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

if she says bad things about you and your FI, why would you even want to invite her?  ignore the comments.

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Dallas, TX

Your wedding, your call. Friends don’t get to decide who is invited to your wedding. I would not invite her.

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Nope. Don’t do it. You want to be comfortable on YOUR day.

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2013

jencala:  its none of anyone’s business who you invite. Just because they are friends with her, doesn’t mean you should invite her. You are no obligated to invite anyone who has made you feel badly. 

So I agree with you, she is a big-fat-NO!

Post # 7
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1944 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

jencala:  nope! do not invite.

Post # 9
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Bumble Beekeeper

If you and your FI are not friends with her why is this even up for discussion? 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

If you aren’t friends with her anymore I wouldn’t invite her.  It isn’t a 6 year old birthday party where you have to invite everyone to not hurt feelings.  If her feelings are hurt that is her problem.  

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

I need help understanding why you have to justify the decisions you and your FI make to your friends. I’m mystified. If they bring it up again, have your FI respond that the answer is no, and no further discussion about it will be entertained, and move on. If they feel she needs to be at a wedding, invite them to host their own and invite her to that.

Post # 13
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Worker bee

i wouldn’t invite 🙂

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2015 - Chapel on Base

Big FAT NO!!!  Why stand a chance of something negative happening on your special day?

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

 

You guys should stop discussing your guest list abd other wedding details with them. If they inquire, tell them you havent made any decisions.

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