To invite or not invite?

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
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  • Post # 2
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    2645 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    I wouldn’t invite her. Not only was she not on your original guestlist for a reason (you aren’t close with her at all), it will now be obvious to her that she was a last minute add on. You have no reason to feel like a jerk – you haven’t done anything wrong.

    If it was me, I would probably get in touch with the friend who posted the photo and explain that the other girl is not invited so please don’t share wedding related things in the group chat because you don’t want her to feel uncomfortable. Don’t feel like you need to engage with your friend or explain if she asks why this girl is not invited, but you can always just tell her the truth if she continues to pester you.

    Post # 3
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    2623 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    SittingWaitingWishing :  Ugh that’s a difficult situation bee. I would honestly invite her at this point just out of sheer awkwardness. But that’s just me, you obviously don’t have to. You said you didn’t attend her wedding, does that mean you were invited though?

    Post # 5
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    9638 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2015

    SittingWaitingWishing :  I would just not invite her and not say anything about it. I’m sure she will politely ignore the text incident.

    Post # 6
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    134 posts
    Blushing bee

    I wouldn’t invite her

    Post # 7
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    2645 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    SittingWaitingWishing :  Honestly, I would just leave it as is. The friend knows not to share anything else, and I’m sure that this girl will just ignore the message and move on – she obviously agrees that you aren’t close.

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