(Closed) To invite or not to invite

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
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Blushing bee

I would not invite her. Shes not a friend, by her own choice. Your wedding is about sharing it with people that support you and your future husband.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@samanthajkellie:  ditto! I can’t imagine inviting her to the wedding. She has no right to be offended over the lack of an invitation. And if she is, who cares?

Post # 5
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Sugar bee

She isn’t your friend and openly trash talks your Fiance… definitely no. If she’s offended, who cares? She has no right to be.

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper

I would absolutely not invite anyone who made me feel “worthless” no matter who they are friends with!  Your wedding guests should be people who love and support you.  It doesn’t matter if things will feel awkward around the time the invites go out – that’s much better than you feeling awkward for even a moment on your wedding day.

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

There should be no Question about it .. ABSOLUTELY NOT .. 

Post # 7
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Newbee
  • Wedding: April 2012

There should be no Question about it .. ABSOLUTELY NOT .. 

Post # 8
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I totally agree with everyone who has posted so far.  You are not required to invite someone who purposely put you off.  She made her own choice here.  If she was interested in being part of your life, she wouldn’t be such a jerk to you and your Fiance.  Her roommate and her sister will understand why she wasn’t invited and probably won’t be offended at all, so I wouldn’t worry about it.

Post # 9
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I agree with everyone else.  No way, don’t invite her.

Post # 10
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Helper bee

It’s your day. You shouldn’t have to stress about people being at your wedding that you don’t want there! And she obviously doesn’t care about your feelings, so why would you care if it offends her that she doesn’t get an invitation. She shouldn’t even be expecting to be invited.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Why would you even consider inviting her?  Sounds like she doesn’t care about you and your finace anyway, so why invite more drama?

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

No.Just no.

Post # 14
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Don’t invite her! Thats her fault if she feels offended, not yours.

Post # 15
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

It seems pretty obvious to  me that the answer is NO! Why invite someone you don’t like and doesn’t like you?

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