- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2012
So after going over the guestlist for the umpteenth time, I am struggling as to whether or not to invite my best friends boyfriend. Originally, Fiance and I were not giving anyone plus 1 unless they were engaged or have been together for at least a year beacuse of our smaller budget.
While my best friend, who is one of my bridesmaids, has been with her boyfriend for well over a year (more than six in fact) I really do not want him to come. They are constantly fighting and is IMO the worst guy for her. He is not physically abusive but he treats her like crap and puts her at the bottom of his list. She has never come fist to him in the years that they have been together and has even cheated on her in the past. Also, they break up every week like it is their job. I know that if I invite him there is a very high possibility that they may not even be together during the weekend of our wedding, but I honestly do not want to take the risk of inviting him.
I don’t know what to do because I know my best friend would be upset if he isn’t invited to the wedding.
Any advice out there from a fellow bee?