- 6 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
Me and my FI’s cousin used to be friends but when we broke up for a little while about four years ago she got him to date her best friend. They dated a couple of months and then we started back talking.
His cousin was furious and stopped talking to him and me. Her friend was also mad and told her sister and friends that if they saw us out together they needed to do something. Well…they did. One of her friends keyed slut in the side of my brand new car. All the way down the passenger side, costing 1400$ worth. They then told him a bunch of lies about me and so on. When we got engaged in 2010 they talked horrible about us on facebook, where everyone could see. I mean she is his cousin she should of been happy for us not still mad about something that happened two years prior. Them talking all that started this huge fight where his mother wouldnt even talk to her and I practically wanted to kill them. He’s country so they were talking about how we would probably get married by a pond, called his family trash etc, it was really crude…to her own family. Just a couple months ago the friend/ex told HIS grandmother that we ran her off the road. REALLY? (didnt happen)
His grandmother got all upset about her grandchildren not talking so they “talked’ and supposed got everythingt straight but the next day he went with me to my registration where they both go to college also and she didnt speak a word to him (bc her friend was with her.) During this whole thing she chose her friend over her own family. All I’ve said this whole time was I wanted an apology for the way she treated me and it would be over..I mean the girl who keyed my car I am socialable with her bc she apologize. Thats just the kind of person I am. For mothers day her and her bf who I used to be friends with until they started talking come over to his grandmothers to eat. I was in the middle and instead of walking by me and saying excuse me she walke all the way around me and never spoke to me. Pretended I wasnt even there. I havent done anything to this girl.
Sorry so long but this is my question…Do I invite her or not? I feel bad for not inviting her because of his grandma. It would really hurt her feeling but I can’t even be in the same room with her without her making me want to scream. I surely do not want her at my wedding and she probably wouldn’t even want to go but if she was invited either her grandma or mother would make her go. His mother is now on good terms with her and defends her sometimes which makes me mad and when I didnt have her on the list his mother said you have to invite her, but then I gave in and added her but then the way she treated me for mothers day, I honestly dont know if I could stand her at our wedding.