To invite, or not to invite (even though we REALLY dont want to)

posted 3 years ago in Guests
  • poll: Do we invite him?
    Yes, it doesn't matter if he hates you and you hate him : (5 votes)
    24 %
    No, it's your wedding, someone who doesn't like you shouldn't be there : (16 votes)
    76 %
  • Post # 2
    6883 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    I’d invite him, but wouldn’t have high expectations of either of them coming. Sounds like he would try to ‘veto’ her from going, even more so if he werent invited.

    Post # 3
    422 posts
    Helper bee

    candache :  I would say yes but since you have such a small venue and can only fit 50 people I wouldn’t waste a chair on him. It truly is due to space constraints 🙂 

    Post # 5
    555 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2017 - Lake Louise Canada

    Is he even going to go if you ask? If he really dislikes you he probably wouldnt pay to attend a destination wedding anyway. NOT inviting him would give them a reason to make sure neither of them attends since you could offend either of them by excluding him.

    Post # 6
    869 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    My BFF has one of these as well. However, guests get a plus one, but her invite is “Bestie and guest” so she can choose to bring someone else if she wants.


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