To Invite or Not to Invite: We've reached an impasse

posted 2 years ago in Guests
  • poll: Would you invite this guest?
    No - You don't like her, and you have friends who you DO like who could be attending instead. : (69 votes)
    79 %
    Yes - Only if FMIL and FFIL pay for her seat. : (7 votes)
    8 %
    Yes - She's been around for a long time. : (9 votes)
    10 %
    Other - explain in comments : (2 votes)
    2 %
  • Post # 32
    Member
    11 posts
    Newbee

    Bee, forget about what you future in-laws say (even if they offer to pay her seat). If you’re going to do stuff a certain way just to keep peace with someone then you will have an entire life of people telling you how to live your life. Just think this way: you guys don’t like her so she should not be going! Simple. Just because she is living with your fiancé’s brothers that doesn’t mean you have to invite her. Can you imagine if we all had to invite people we don’t like just because they live with someone that will attend? Guest lists would be even harder to deal with! Go with what you and your fiancé want.

    Update: I just finished reading your update. Sounds like the case is solved! 🙂

    Post # 33
    Member
    2013 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2018

    the moment someone demands to come to my wedding, they are off the list. I don’t put up with that. If you are my BEST FRIEND IN THE WORLD it’s one thing, but someone that is just kind of around, nope. You’re out. 

    Post # 34
    Member
    1091 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2017

    topshelfprincess :  HA! Sometimes situations have a way of solving themselves.

    This girl sounds lovely.

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