Post # 1
Ok so, Iv got this friend of my who i was really close to but for the past year she has really proven that she isnt a real friend (cancelling on catch ups to hang with boyfriend & also getting a job a my work place and not telling me until i find out from my manager)…should i invite her to my wedding? I am supossibly a brides maid in her wedding in nov but she hasnt really spoken to me apart from when we bump into each other!
I am so lost about this and would really like your opinion on the matter!
we are having a large ceremony with about 70-80 people but a reception with only about 35-40 people
Post # 3
Maybe you should speak with her before not inviting her to your wedding!
Not inviting her is, in my opinion, like telling her “We’re not friends anymore”, potentially ruining an already strained relashionship. Perhaps before that you should meet up with her (or, if it’s not possible as she cancels on you, write her an email or call her) and tell her you’re unsure of where you stand and ask her if something happened. If she asks why, tell her you’re confused that she seems to be avoiding you and that you found it very strange that you had to find out about her new job at your workplace from your manager!
If you’re not satisfied with the answers or discover that there are some issues, you alone can decide if you prefer to cut your losses or work on your relationship with her. But it’s not easy to find new friends, so if she was once a good friend there’s a chance she might be one yet again!