(Closed) To let them stay or not to? Hmmmm…

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
4439 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 2013 - Harbourfront Grand Hall

@imageeksowhat:  I wouldn’t let them stay either for the reasons mentioned.  Especially if you have animals, ESPECIALLY if the guy seems like a jerk from your description.  And you’ve got an easy out, just let your friend know Danny isn’t ok with it.

Post # 4
442 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

This is a tough one…your Fiance makes a goo point because this guy sounds unpredictable. It’s shady that he feels he has the right to invite himself in the first place. I’ suggest a hotel unless your friend would be offended. How big is your place? If you dpnt have guest room you could blame it on that!


sorry for weirdness I’m on my iPhone. 

Post # 5
923 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

We had the same issue with my cousin and her boyfriend.  We decided that if one member of the household disagreed then it was a no.  Kinda like having a baby.  It takes two yesses, but only one no. 

Post # 7
1285 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Sugaree:  I agree. It is Danny’s house too and he should feel comfortable with the people invited over, especially if they will be in the house alone for extended periods. I would suggest a hotel and if your friend pushes the issue, please don’t throw Danny under the bus!

Post # 9
771 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@imageeksowhat:  If you and Danny share your home, and he says no, the answer is no.  To me, it’s really that simple.  Your friend should understand.

Post # 10
3340 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - Rhode Island

I’d blame it on the guest room space too.  You should still be able to sneak away and have a girl’s day even if he comes.  Right?  I mean, he’s not going to like, follow you two around the whole visit is he?

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