(Closed) To register or not to register for a second wedding?

posted 4 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I think you should do a small registery. People will want to bring gifts and it’s better to give them some direction otherwise you may end up with a bunch of stuff you don’t want. 

Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

This is a second wedding for Fiance and I, we did a small registry. I felt weird about doing one simply because it was a second wedding I didn’t want anyone to think we expected anything. When family or friends asked about it I would say I did a small one but please do not feel like you have to get us anything. 

Post # 4
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1228 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

Do exactly what you do for a first wedding: create a registry, don’t mention it on the invitation, give people the info if they ask.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

This will be my second marriage, and I do not plan on registering. I assume if people really want to give something they will just give some monetary amount. I also am having a tropical small and intimate destination wedding so I just assume most people’s travel is their gift to us.

I don’t know I personally feel that people met ther wedding gift quota on the first go.

Post # 6
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Helper bee

CakeSniffer:  I think a small registry is fine.  I wouldn’t put it on your inviation … thats just a personal preference for me though.  I would create it, and if someone asks, you can let them know.  Otherwise, people will likely give you money and then you can buy what you like with that.

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