(Closed) To Remove A Bridesmaid Or Not

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: City, State

I’d say you really need to sit down with her and have a chat about things. Tell her that you know that she apologized which you appreciate but you’re having trouble moving past things she said and would like to talk it out with her.

If she can’t sit down and have a civilized conversation then perhaps you two aren’t good together.

Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - Valleybrook Country Club

sunshadebride :  I would say that you approach her and say something along the lines of, “I think it would be better and more comfortable for both of us if we were just guests at each others weddings. I would hate to re-hash things and we both need to avoid being stressed during this time in our lives.”

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I think you shouldnt have her in your wedding. What was said was said and an apology doesnt change that. You can say too much has happened and with that you dont think it feels right to have her in your wedding

Post # 5
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47203 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Your wedding isn’t until next May. Why not just let things settle down a bit?

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

So 2 things. 1, your wedding is still very far away. You have no idea what will happen between now and then.

2, kicking her out could be friendship ending. Do you want to continue to be friends with her? If you dont, then 100% go ahead. If you still want to rekindle the friendship, I’d sit tight for now.

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