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posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
9950 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

Let it go.  You have him and he’s obviously better off.  Someone who would do what she did isn’t worth your time or anymore thought, even.

Post # 4
777 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Just ignore her. If you reply it will only encourage her to continue.

Post # 5
3000 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I agree, no point in continuing drama even if she is to blame. Just let it go, it’s not worth it.

Post # 6
3942 posts
Honey bee

Let it go. She is obviously looking for attention.

Post # 7
5428 posts
Bee Keeper

@Mrs. Bubb:  Of course it is months later 

I think it’s too late now. But if she tries this again, I would message her right back if you can!

Post # 8
46653 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ignore her. Going to that extent to respond to a post that is months old would be just as childish as her original post.

Post # 9
140 posts
Blushing bee

Best to let sleeping dogs lie at this point, if she chooses to message you again in the future it just proves she’s an immature little brat with no life. Not even worth your time.

Post # 10
13289 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Let it go, don’t get sucked into useless drama. 

Post # 12
10366 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Well, you haven’t let it go if you’re still thinking about it and are posting about it online. So, you haven’t actually done that “thus far” 😉

I would actually let it go. It’s her trying to stir up trouble. Rise above!

Post # 13
3081 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

O gossshhh, just let this go! Seriously, that’s the best way to get to her. I hate it when people do stuff like that. Be the mature one here, and you’ll come out on top. 

Post # 14
16191 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I’d ignore it. You’re much better off spending your precious time and energy on your wonderful FI!

Post # 15
943 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Let it go.  Don’t give her the satisfaction of a response, she’s obviously trying to get a rise out of you. 

Post # 16
2606 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

Yeah, it’s been too long.  That’s kind of like someone inulting you and thinking of a snappy comeback a few days later…you’ll just look foolish if you say anything at that point.  

Also, you’re not supposed to have more than one profile on Facebook, (though a lot of people do).  If you create a new one to message her, it’s possible she could use that as ammunition to report you to FB, which could have both accounts locked.  

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