(Closed) To send a bridal shower gift or no?

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
  • poll: Should I send a gift(please read story below)?

    Yes full gift

    Yes small gift

    No a card should suffice

  • Post # 3
    1795 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    @candykiss:  If you’re not close to her, I think it’s totally fine not to give a gift. Especially if you are planning to gift for the wedding.

    Post # 5
    11525 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    If you do not attend the shower, you should not feel obligated to send a gift. There were people who were invited to my shower who did not attend and who did not send gifts. If I am very close with someone and am unable to attend her shower, I will usually send a gift.  However, that does not seem to be the case in this situation.

    Post # 6
    3323 posts
    Sugar bee

    No, especially since you suspect it’s a gift grab.

    If everyone you sent an invite to had to send a gift people would send out 100’s of shower invites.

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