(Closed) To send or not to send ring photos to boyfriend???

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1737 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I would not text him the photos. He told you to cool your jets so you should cool them. When it’s time for a ring you’ll find another perfect one or you may still be able to get that one.

I would leave it alone.


Post # 4
510 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 1993

What?  No.  Sister, listen to him – he’s telling you to cool your jets.  So you need to cool your jets.  No more pictures/texts/chats.  Give it a rest for a while.

Post # 5
257 posts
Helper bee

I think you should just not bring up rings, wedding, etc. for awhile. I know with my SO if I don’t bring it up for a week or so he thinks something is wrong with me lol and then he brings it up. I would just take a day for you and regroup. Then after you are back to normal drown him with love and don’t bring weddings etc up.

Post # 6
1883 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

No no no no!! Do not text him the pictures.  He told you to cool off so LISTEN!

Post # 7
4913 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

He either told you to cool your jets and signed off because (1) he already bought you your ring and he doesn’t want to see that you don’t like it anymore because you like something new or (2) he’s just really tired of hearing about it all the time and maybe he’s busy with some other things and it’s not really at the top of his mind right now.

I wouldn’t send him the pictures.  Instead, post the pictures on here for us to see!  In the meantime, wait until he’s receptive to hearing about it and then talk to him about it.  And by wait, I mean – wait until he brings it up himself first. 

Post # 8
1741 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Do not send pictures!

Post # 9
12307 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@boardersarita:  “I think you should cool your jets babe” and then signed offline.

Enough said…. no more talk of rings and no pics.

Post # 10
962 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I think you should post them HERE!!! showwww. Lol

Post # 12
1850 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

 I can understand your embarassment. I honestly would be embarassed too. But it’s okay; just shake it off.

Don’t send the pictures though…but I really like the idea of showing us the pictures! 😉

Post # 14
4913 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@boardersarita:  Oh wow those are beautiful!  I especially love how the sapphire in the 2nd ring is kind of see through!  Gorgeous rings. 

Just wait until he brings it up again and then you’ll be able to send these to him, I’m sure. 

Post # 15
7941 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

@boardersarita:  I agree with the PP, just enjoy the photos for yourself and leave it be. I know it is hard to not share once we find something we love but it can really do some damage if he isn’t open to the idea. Have you guys discussed marriage yet? You said you went to the store together…was that his idea?

Have a great time in Yosemite and try not to focus on the potential proposal. It is my favorite place on earth (my DH proposed to me in the snow at Bridalveil falls in Yosemite) and I’m sure it would make for an epic weekend if he proposed but no less amazing if he doesn’t. Enjoy yourself!!!

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