(Closed) to Settle or not to Settle????

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
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11384 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Do you have a picture of your e-ring?

Anything you like when it comes to wedding bands? As in metal color, stones, ect?

Post # 4
Hostess
7560 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

Why not get a plain band for now and upgrade to a ring of your choice in a few years? It will take off the pressure for now and give you more time to decide what you want. 

Post # 5
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4476 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@AlwaysSunny:  I like this suggestion

 

If you have a weddingband you REALLY love that doesn’t go with your ering, you can wear your rings on different hands.

Post # 6
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2126 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I think this is more common than you realize. I had mixed feelings about my ring for months but now I just  love it. And that’s even though I picked it out!! I think If I had looked at too many rings, for too long I’d be where you are..just at a loss for the perfect ring. 

But for me, I just pointed out a few I loved, a couple that were budget worthy and one dreamboat ring, I didn’t look at them super close, It was more of a “at first glace, I love this” kinda method that I used. 

In the end, he ended up getting hte dreamboat ring…the more expensive one, the designer one, and yes, it’s beutiful but I couldn’t help but pick it apart for months. In the end, I was just so happy to be engaged, I iddn’t focus on that for long, and now it’s a distant memory. I simply got a band that matched my ring and moved forward. They look great together, not so much separate, but I truly hope to always wear both.. 

I think you might drive yourself crazy searching for the perfect rings. So, stick with what looks good on you, keep it simple. 

Post # 7
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3227 posts
Sugar bee

@CodijoC:  I totally understand what you mean. I’ve been debating this for years. I think the suggestion to go with a plain band is a great option while you decide what style ring you could possibly upgrade to in a few years or for an anniversary. Don’t over analyze just pick what you like now ( I need to follow my own advise lol)

Post # 11
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2126 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

It’s gorgeous! I love your ring..and the band you want is lovely too. You know some people just move their engagment rings to the left hand when they get their wedding rings! It’s always an option if you aren’t willing to change your vision on your wedding ring and you can’t find something that goes well with your e-ring.

Post # 12
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3227 posts
Sugar bee

@CodijoC:  You’re e-ring looks really nice on you and is very unique along with the band you posted. The only way you’ll know is by trying on bands. I suggest buying the one you like, make sure they have a good return policy in case you don’t like it. 

 

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