(Closed) To Spend or Not to Spend…the Ring

posted 11 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

Do what you want. Ring is a symbol of your guys’ committment to each other. It’s not suppose to a symbol to fend off other people’s comments. You shouldn’t worried about other people’s judgement.

Post # 4
458 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

This may sound cliche, but I think it’ the thought that counts.  I think it’s better to spend what you can afford on a ring without going into debt.

Post # 5
14181 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Do what you like! However, consider something like moissanite. He’ll get the “look” of a bigger stone but it’s not diamond so it’s much cheaper. Still, it fools many many people.

Post # 6
200 posts
Helper bee

I think you should spend the money on something else and get the smaller, less expensive ring.

Unless you really care about jewelry or status, engagement rings are a waste of money. Some people might judge your fiance for it, but really, who cares about the judgments of small-minded and shallow people? 

FWIW, we didn’t get me an engagement ring at all and I don’t think anyone has noticed. I’m not the kind of woman who is into status or expensive jewelry and everyone knows it. Fortunately, anyone with an opinion about it has kept it to themselves. 🙂 

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