(Closed) To Stubble or Not to Stubble

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
  • poll: To stubble or not to stubble?

    Its your wedding, do what you want!

    I like my man in stubble, but don't think it is appropriate for a wedding

    I hate scruff anyway, good ridance

    My man was clean shaven

    My man had stubble on the day

    My man has more interesting facial hair than that

  • Post # 18
    9950 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2012

    Your guy is right… people are gonna judge, and think he was TOO LAZY to shave

    And in turn wonder about his “commitment” to the whole Wedding thing

    “Sheesh, he couldn’t even get up the effort to shave… seriously, you got to wonder how important this is to him”

    Sad, but true

    I say he should shave the day of the Wedding, and then you two can get really cozy over the Honeymoon as he does whatever he & you decide is a turn-on.

    Honeymoons are good that way


    Post # 19
    2195 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    I LOVE stubble. Love it. So hot.  It depends on the type of person you’re inviting to your wedding as to whether they will judge you, I’m not no one around here would notice or care about the groom facial hair. But you know your crowd.
    He’ll look good no matter what so it should be his call.

    Post # 20
    8437 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    My husband was worried about the same thing, but in the end he did what I preferred because I was his bride.  He went with the stubble look 🙂

    Post # 21
    1052 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014 - Cedar Lake Cellars

    I was honestly thinking about having the exact same discussion with my Fiance.  I definitely prefer the scruff and he typically shaves 1-2x/week (which is plenty for him).  But, he typically shaves when he dresses up so I don’t know what he’ll think.

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    @MrsBeck:  I have the exact same problem.  He just looks too young and not like himself to me.

    Post # 22
    3668 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @MsLabRat:  My SO has a baby face and needs that 2-3 day stubble! Do what you want, it’s your day 🙂 

    Post # 23
    172 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    My Fiance has a full-on beard. I want him to look like himself on our wedding day. That’s why his beard is okay. I wouldn’t want him to grow one specifically for the wedding, but I don’t want him to change for the wedding either.

    @MsLabRat:  I don’t want to change my hair or makeup TOO much for the big day because that’s not me. The same should go for your Fiance. If he’s got the confidence; he should rock it.

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