(Closed) To thank you card or not to thank you card

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
3686 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013



Post # 4
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Someone feels strongly about early thank you cards! Don’t worry, I’m sending mine after the wedding – thanks for the heads up, though!

Post # 5
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Um, yes, handwritten personal thank you cards are basically a must…I don’t think I’ve ever seen anyone argue against that on the hive. Is there a question here that I’m missing?

Post # 6
89 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I completely agree with what you are saying. In fact, I don’t think that many will disagree with you as that is what is generally expected when following etiquette guidelines…

…BUT, you seem a *bit* miffed?! The bold and all caps threw me off slightly. 

Post # 7
9082 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2012

I’m a spiteful person and if anyone said this to me in person, I’d hold off as long as possible to send a thank you to that person.

Post # 8
514 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

@OCDolly:  i just wrote a question about this earlier….however you seem very angry in your debut post. 

Post # 9
2657 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My vote is for after. I had fun writing them all out.

Post # 10
1022 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@OCDolly:  huh, am I missing part of the post? I don’t think maybe people if anyone inlcudes a generic thank you in place of one for the gift?

Post # 11
1755 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@OCDolly:  Agreed, however, I’d suggest noting, it’s not necessary to put your post in caps and bolded.




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