(Closed) Today = Bitter

posted 12 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Good luck not talking about it!  It does seem to happen when you don’t talk about it!

Post # 4
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Yes Good Luck! Lips Zipped! It makes it soo much better. We didn’t really talk about it much before it happened but if we did it would have made the wait a lot harder. I especially couldn’t have stayed sane if I would have found this site before being engaged. I’d be crazy reading about all these engagements happening when I was waiting. I say steer clear of WeddingBee for a while if your SUPER BITTER! I’m sure that would help your mood.

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Oddly enough the Hive makes me less bitter.  It is very refreshing to know that I am not the only person in this situation and that hey we are going to get engaged one day (look at Corgs, Afish, Waitingprincess, sweetheartdealer) the list of the graduate waiting ladies goes on and on!!   I say stay here and vent if you have to, you’d definitely not vent to your honey.  btw, i’ve had dreams where m did something in my dream and i just got so pissed at him that it lasted throughout the day.  ((HUGS))

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

Awe… I had a wedding dream last night too. I woke up before I could findout what happened. I don’t think that the guys understand how much this waiting is affecting us. Just remember that it was a dream and not realtiy. I had to tell myself that because I have been having wedding dreams/nightmares lately.

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I agree with crebre, I find it a lot easier to not talk about it to my bf now that I found the hive!

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

mmmtacos!  I am ALWAYS mad at my BF when I have a dream like that.  He gets mad and keeps saying he didn’t do anything, but it seems real!  He had a bad dream about me last night, and woke up and grabbed me hugging me.  It goes both ways.  Anyways the hive has really helped my craziness about waiting.  

Join the Christmas (V-day, maybe,) Challenge!  I’m going a week strong!!  

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

It was really hard for me not to talk about so if you have the will power then I commend you.

Post # 12
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Newbee

I agree. This site also makes me feel better that it will happen eventually. Having others to vent to helps me be Less resentful towards the BF.

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