Post # 1
I don’t know why, maybe it was the dream I had that my BF said he didn’t want to marry me (funny how dreams effect you!), but I am freaking bitter today! I think we’ve been talking too much marriage lately and I am going to completely, 100% lay off.
So back into the BLITZ season challenge I go!
Post # 3
Good luck not talking about it! It does seem to happen when you don’t talk about it!
Post # 4
Yes Good Luck! Lips Zipped! It makes it soo much better. We didn’t really talk about it much before it happened but if we did it would have made the wait a lot harder. I especially couldn’t have stayed sane if I would have found this site before being engaged. I’d be crazy reading about all these engagements happening when I was waiting. I say steer clear of WeddingBee for a while if your SUPER BITTER! I’m sure that would help your mood.
Post # 5
Oddly enough the Hive makes me less bitter. It is very refreshing to know that I am not the only person in this situation and that hey we are going to get engaged one day (look at Corgs, Afish, Waitingprincess, sweetheartdealer) the list of the graduate waiting ladies goes on and on!! I say stay here and vent if you have to, you’d definitely not vent to your honey. btw, i’ve had dreams where m did something in my dream and i just got so pissed at him that it lasted throughout the day. ((HUGS))
Post # 6
Awe… I had a wedding dream last night too. I woke up before I could findout what happened. I don’t think that the guys understand how much this waiting is affecting us. Just remember that it was a dream and not realtiy. I had to tell myself that because I have been having wedding dreams/nightmares lately.
Post # 7
I agree with crebre, I find it a lot easier to not talk about it to my bf now that I found the hive!
Post # 8
Gah, I have super-bad engagement brain but at least I got stuff figured out. 🙂 I’m relatively sure I know what Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses I want, colors, centerpieces, and some venue options.
Post # 9
mmmtacos! I am ALWAYS mad at my BF when I have a dream like that. He gets mad and keeps saying he didn’t do anything, but it seems real! He had a bad dream about me last night, and woke up and grabbed me hugging me. It goes both ways. Anyways the hive has really helped my craziness about waiting.
Join the Christmas (V-day, maybe,) Challenge! I’m going a week strong!!
Post # 10
Oh that gave me the warm fuzzies.. I just remembered when my BF had a dream I was dead, and when he woke up he said he never wanted to lose me. 🙁
Post # 11
It was really hard for me not to talk about so if you have the will power then I commend you.
Post # 12
I agree. This site also makes me feel better that it will happen eventually. Having others to vent to helps me be Less resentful towards the BF.