Post # 16
We never have the right words to say or understand why such terrible things happen to good people.
What helps me through difficult and unexplainable life events is my faith. I know that God is looking over us, and he never gives us anything we cannot handle. He sees everything past, present, and future.
For some unexplainable reason your husband was taken far too soon. But please be comforted in knowing he is at his forever home. He is always with you and most importantly he is happy. Every want and desire is waiting for him in heaven. Find comfort in knowing that he is living in a state peace and extreme joy. I know, if I was in your situation all I could hold on to is my faith.
God gives and God takes away, perhaps he spared your husband from a life of misery due to illness? Sometimes we cannot forsee the future, but I know God will help you through this. He will give you strength to get out of bed. He will give you energy and heal your broken heart. Don’t give up on Him… rely on Him. His love will get you through this tragedy..:(. I’m praying for you.
We are all here to listen to you… Anytime.
Post # 17
- Wedding: November 2014 - Nazareth Hall
Oh bee I am so sorry for your tragic loss. I pray you find every day a little easier, and know your husband will guide you through yur life journey in heaven. He is watching over you. Please take the time to grieve and cry and sleep and however else you need to cope. Praying for you
Post # 18
Wishing you all the best and I hope your heart heals more with each passing day ❤️
Post # 19
Sending love and virtual hugs. I’m so sorry you are hurting.
Post # 20
Reading this I burst into tears for you, bee. My heart aches — can’t even imagine what you are going through. My thoughts are with you, we are all here for you.
Post # 21
I’m so sorry Bee. I can’t even imagine what you are going through. Thinking of you! I know it’s just a forum on the Internet, but we are always here when you just want to write or vent. You’re not alone! Sending you love and hoping for peace and rest for you!
Post # 22
Bee, wherever you are in the world, know that your husband is with you too. Our loved ones just don’t disappear from our lives. They are in everything that we do. Your husband will be with you always, smiling at your accomplishments, saddened by your hard times, and happy that one day you will find peace and move on.
For right now, the only advice I have is to take comfort in the fact that you shared this time with someone who will always be a huge part of your life. One day, it will hurt less, and until then, you’ve got this. We believe in you.
Post # 23
- Wedding: June 2016 - Beach
I am so sorry . I can’t even imagine the pain you must be feeling. My heart goes out to you.
Post # 24
I am so sorry for your loss. You are very brave. Feel free to write all you want.
Post # 25
To grieve is to carry a heavy burden. Lean on anyone that can help with the load. We are all holding you up in strength and love.
Post # 26
My heart is literally broken for you. I cannot, nor do I want to imagine what you are going through. I pray that you are comforted in your soul. I am so sorry you had to experience this loss. I will keep you and your family in my prayers. Again, I know nothing more to say than I am so sorry. Please remember to take care of yourself. Take as long as you need to grieve.
Post # 27
- Wedding: April 2007 - City, State
Strbuckslvr: I’m so sorry for your loss. Prayers.
Post # 28
Crying for you here. Feel free to vent anytime here… we may not be physically there with you, but we care.
Post # 29
I know there’s nothing that can be said to ease the pain but please that the memories will never be lost. Stay strong!
Post # 30
Thank you all once again.
I am sitting here today searching for a deeper meaning. My husband and I met in the most unconventional way possible. It is a love story that I believe needs to be told. Except I don’t know if I would even do it justice. I have loved this man before I even laid eyes on him, I will love him until I take my last breath. Oh how I hate when people approach me and tell me I will figure out my life, I’m 26 I have so much to look forward to. My happily ever after already eneded, I don’t want anyone else… I can’t even think of anyone else. Id give my life to be able to hear my husbands laugh one more time, to hug him one more time. Why is that so hard to understand? Is there like a support group somewhere out there where ppl with at least kind of understand? Should I go see someone? I’ve spoken with a pastor twice and that kind of helped.. Maybe I just need to tell people our story? Maybe I was his guardian angel through the worst part of his life, and now he will be mine? Maybe he was put on this earth to open my eyes? To teach me how to love? How to stand up for myself? Maybe I’m just unlucky and am destined to be alone? What is it? Is there a handbook to grieving? where do I get a copy? I feel like I’m angry with the world… The man that I love is not here, he’s not home waiting for me, he’s never going to tell me he loves me again.. Damn it, why me? Why us? Why him?
I was there though the hardest part of his life, I supported him, I loved him, I cheered him up, that’s actually when I fell in love with him. I fell in love with a voice and tons of handwritten letters and maybe a couple pictures. That love turned into the greatest 3 years of my life. And now I’m here alone… I just wanna know why? Why couldn’t our love story continue? We were just starting our lives… We had so many plans and dreams… And now there is nothing, just empty space in my heart…. And that burning love I have for him… Oh baby, how I love you.