(Closed) Today I said goodbye to my heart…..

posted 4 years ago in Beehive
Post # 62
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7892 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

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Strbuckslvr:  Ending your own life is not the answer. I’m sorry you feel like your real life social support is lacking. Have you been interacting with his side of the family? Please know that us weddingbees are here for you! I really think it would be helpful to reach out to a healthcare professional. Your primary care provider is a great resource. Please get help now.

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
Call 1-800-273-8255. There is also an online chat option. 

Post # 64
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2016

As a parent of adult children I can only imagine that I would want to do ANYTHING to see my baby girl smile a little. It’s misguided and annoying, but done out of love.  I hope your parents fall into a pattern of allowing you to grieve as you need to soon. Sending you peaceful thoughts for such a tragic journey. So many hugs coming your way. 

Post # 65
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

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Strbuckslvr:  I don’t often cry reading posts, but this broke my heart. I am so incredibly sorry for your loss and I hope you take some comfort in knowing how much you love each other. 

Post # 67
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Bumble bee

I am damn near sobbing, reading this so I can’t imagine how you’re feeling right now. I am so sorry you are going through this and I hope putting your feelings out there brings you some sort of peace. 

Post # 68
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Bumble bee

This is so sad, I’m so sorry bee. It is great that you are expressing your feeling, even if it is only on this forum. Please continue to do so when you can, it will be helping you more than you realise. I’m thinking of you.

ETA: I’ve just read your update and it made me cry. You have a wonderful way with words and expressing your feelings, it is beautiful and sad at the same time.

Post # 70
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Newbee
  • Wedding: June 2017

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Strbuckslvr :  I am so sorry for your loss. I lost my husband, the father of my kids, 2 1/2 years ago. I would not wish that pain on my worst enemy.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers

Post # 71
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Buzzing bee

Have either of you looked at Carole Brody Fleet on FB?

A close friend recently experienced the sudden and unexpected death of her dear spouse. A wonderful, caring compassionate gentleman, she was devestated, and we, her friends, feel and felt every heartache with her, but of course can’t truly understand her suffering.

I don’t really know who found Carole Brody Fleet, but her comments are a real blessing to those of us who have experienced tragedy. I hope that you both find her comments a help in thinking your way through what has happened to you.

You have my most sincere sympathy.

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