(Closed) Today is one of the worst days of my life! ::SOBS::

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2012

giant hugs and positive energy going out to you.  forget about not having the ring for your shower.  you still have your uncle, thank god, and whether or not he is there on your wedding day, he is still in your life.  this is the most important thing.  chin up, ladybug. 

Post # 4
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

I am so sorry.

I hope things get better for you soon.

Big {{{hugs}}} being sent your way Smile

Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am so sorry lady, wish there were some magic words to say to make you feel better.  All I do is send you (((( HUGS )))).

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper

i am sending you BIG hugs.  in times like these, just know it can only go up. and try to focus on the fact that your uncle survived and it probably could have been much worse. don’t know if that helps, but i wanted to try!   

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I am so sorry!!!  ((((HUGSS!)))

You have every right to be disappointed about your ring.  I assume that your shower is soon, too soon to have the jeweler rush it.  Maybe approach your absent ring @ the shower in a silly way…  You know the 100 ct (okay, maybe a little exaggeration:) rings at Claire’s…  the ones that are really over the top and clearly for fun?  Maybe sport one of those on the day of the shower?  Joke with a bridesmaid about it, and how it is your temp while THE ring is at the jeweler.  People will catch on, and I doubt that anyone will think much of it.  That is what I would probably do…  I feel a bit more comfortable when I approach uncomfortable situations with my akward sense of humor.  Remember, your guests will be there to support you and your upcoming marriage, not have rude thoughts about your ring being on vacation from you.  : )

Secondly, I am so sorry that your uncle is having health issues.  It is scary for you, especially since you are so close.  And then on top of that scariness, is that you now have uncertainty about wedding details.  What about using Skype so that he can see your ceremony?  I know that it is definately not the same for either of you, but it would be a means for him to be included on your big day.

Again, I wish you the best.  I hope that you are able to get some sleep after a difficult and emotional day.  Things will look up in the morning…  All the best to you.  πŸ™‚

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: January 2012

Sending lots of hugs and prayers your way…let yourself cry and just feel upset right now but know that these feelings of desperation and sadness are temporary and it will pass… Ms Meoweson is right, your uncle is still alive and that is something to be thankful for.

Post # 9
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@Tswife4ever: Oh, sweet lady, hang in there. You will get through this. My heart goes out to you and your uncle. I hope he is comfortable and recovers well. So sorry about your ring! What a nuisance! You should look into getting your money back for that poor service! Hugs hugs and more hugs!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2016

πŸ™ Poor thing. Cry it out!!! When it rains, it sure pours. *hugs*

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Poor thing!!! ((Hugs)) and love! πŸ™

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’m so sorry about your ring.

I wanted to give you hope for your uncle.  My aunt is 56, and just had a bleeding stroke at the end of February.   She had a bleed in her brain that was the size of the neurologist’s middle finger, three times over.   Joan could speak, but it was hard to understand, and she had nothing for movement in her feet and arms.     After a few days, she started feeling pain in her leg, and was able to move it within a week.  It took almost a month, but her arm is starting to move now too.   She has been in an intensive rehab unit, but went from not standing to walking 20 steps (with the bars) within a few days.  We don’t know if she will ever be 100%, but have every reason to think that she will regain so much more.   They are guessing she will be in there for another 2 months or so.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

I wish I could make you feel better, but I’m sending positive engery you way. Cry until you’re done. Then get up, take a shower, and do something that makes you happy. Good luck to your poor uncle!

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I’m sorry πŸ™ It sucks when everything seems to go wrong at the same time! Things will get better though πŸ™‚

I did have a suggestion for the ring. I didn’t have my engagement ring at the bridal shower because it was being soddered together at the time. I’d suggest wearing another ring if it bothers you. I wore my great grandmother’s diamond that I wear on my right hand. Or you could always go out and get a pretty CZ ring to wear until you get your ring back.

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