- 7 years ago
- Wedding: January 2010
It was a confused, about your marriage, kinda morning. As my husband gets up at 3 am to get up and go on the computer spends about two hours on it then moves to the couch to go back to sleep. I woke up from a nightmare, the dream was about war. So all is well we go out for breaky and then head to the mall. The mall we shopped for a ipod. so i guess you can say it was an alrighth start of the day.
If you have read any of my other posts you will know that i am stressing out on my HB family. We go to the fams house cause its fathers day. all is well till i got really upset about my HB and his Brotherer. My HB started to call his brother an Efen Idiot about how he handeled his wifes afairs. I said to him its his problem and his affairs. He insisted that it was all about what he wanted the best for her needs. I sat in the middle, literally listening to him hurt his brothers feelings.
Not only this his respect for his brother or myself is NOT RIGHT. So i get home to tell him about his complete disrespect for others was not acceptable. He says you dont like it then f off. And i want you to sign the boat to me, then leave.
I called my mother and said mom i am hurt and i want to tell you but i want to stop crying and i dont want him to be upset with me watching me cry. She listened and cheered me up.
I pushed him over the edge but it seems like that behavior is getting out of hand so it needs to be said. I was told by his mother and sister that i have changed my husband in a good way. But do you want to know how i change him i yell, i yell cause only a man cant hear a word you say normally. It seems like common sence to know how to behave. But instead i have to yell cause his comments are just questions within questions. So i get more pissed off cause hes not respecting me but not listening to what i have to say, he blows me off by saying then leave or you know where to go.
On top of it just before i leave his father called me by the wrong name, It was just the icing on the cake!!!