(Closed) Today's the day! Well… not THE day

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2478 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

Sent 3 links from the same website in April (it seems like so long ago, and i have to remind myself it wasn’t). Then I went nutso and started laying on the pressure. Now I really want to stop. He seemed receptive then acted like the stuff I sent him were too expensive so a showed him less expensive variations on the same theme from Jared. But now I have my heart set back on the same store from the email i sent him, So I hope he goes with that. I have a feeling he will revisit the topic with me when he is ready to buy…whenever that is.

Now it seems to me….I donnow how it seems to me…I am also very hungry at the moment and am not in the best mood. 

Post # 4
441 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Brazil Room

Yep, I first talked to him and said “hey I found a ring that I really like”… he jokes back “oh yeah? what kind of ring?”… “you know what I’m talking about”… and I threw in the idea that I would send him a link (no pressure) just to see what he thought of what I was thinking of. This man, by the way… is SUPER PICKY… but he sent me an email back and said “Wow, that’s awesome” which floored me. He liked something? What?

And then I just hung back a bit. Couple of months later I brought up that I wanted different side stones for “the ring” than I originally sent him. So he said just resend the email with the new link.

We talked some more and it looks like he’s decided to buy the ring now and give it to me some time after he moves in.

I was laid back about it mostly, so I think he felt good he wasn’t being pressured and could come up with his own timeline.

Post # 5
400 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2017

@tullegirl: oooh pretty! if he does get it, i’m looking forward to the pictures!! also, let us know how he reacts to the links.

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@Sapphire-Dreamer:  the only time me and my SO ever yell at each other during an argument is when we’re hungry so i know how you feel ๐Ÿ˜› i got mad at him because i wanted a berricle ring and it’s not expensive so why can’t he get it, yelled, cried, he popped a pizza in the oven and we cuddled.


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