(Closed) Told him I didn't want him to propose. Changed my mind

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

you definitely should tell him. Just say that you thought about it and the reason you really didn’t want him to propose originally was because you didn’t want to be embarassed, but the more you think about it, the more you realize that would only happen if it was in public or around other people. So now you DO want a proposal, just a very private one 🙂 If he was upset about you telling him you didn’t want a proposal in the first place, he will probably be happy to hear you say that.

ETA: If you’re looking for a way to bring it up without it being awkward and out of nowhere, start talking about a friend’s engagement or something, or that you “saw a proposal online” or someting like that. Then it seems like you weren’t just sitting there dwelling on it, but something you saw triggered it. Does that make sense?

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