(Closed) Tonight, I tell him I’m moving out.

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2009

Good luck!!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Stay strong! I admire you for making a decision and following through. I don’t know your story but you posted in “waiting” so I assume he is failing to step up. If he wants to continue a relationship and potentially marry you, you don’t have to live together to do so. Sending warm thoughts your way.

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Good luck… keep us posted

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Wishing you all the best! Smile

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Oh I am so sorry…I know how hard it is….I have been in the same spot before.  Its hard to hurt someone you love.  Stay strong ((hugs))

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

You are brave and you are doing the right thing. Sending thoughts of happiness and strength your way!

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper

I’ve been reading a few of your posts, and just wanted to lend some support. I know it’s very hard to admit when a relationship isn’t working and be the one to call it off. I just wanted to tell you that you’re a very strong person, and I wish you all the best.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee

Everyone is right. It takes a very strong person to stand up for what you need. I hope everything goes well and please keep us updated. We’re always here to lend an ear, so to speak. Good luck!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee

@mermaideve:  I just wanted to say how PROUD I am of you for taking a stand.  I can only imagine how difficult this is for you, but your needs deserve to be met.  You are a VERY STRONG person for being able to asess your situation and not be afraid to make the best decision for YOU.

I wish you the very best of luck tonight and with your move and just wanted to remind you that we are here for you.  ***Hugs***

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I wish I could have been as strong as you back in my 20s, before I wasted 10 years old someone.   Stay strong, but it sounds like you have a good head on your shoulders and are a smart woman.

Best of luck!

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Good luck! I hope it goes well and isn’t too painful for either of you. I think it’s amazing how strong you are being. I know I don’t know you, but I’m proud of you.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Good luck. I was in a situation a few years ago where I knew we shouldn’t be together but I wasn’t as strong as you are. I stayed for a very long time–all because it was a comfortable, and I was embarrassed to admit it wasn’t working to family and friends. Good for you. It’s hard, but IT DOES GET EASIER. Faster than you will think.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

@mermaideve: I’m proud of you! Walking away is hard, but walking away from my last relationship was hands down the BEST thing I have ever done. Just take it one day at a time! Focus on making it through a day without him, then a week, then 30 days, and so on. And before you know it? He’ll just be some dude in your past who will make you appreciate your future man more! {Hugs!!}

Post # 16
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Busy bee

((((HUGS)))) and best of luck. Sorry you have to do this, but huge props for taking initiative and getting out. 

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