(Closed) Too late to ask another bridesmaid?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Buzzing bee

Just ask her.  Don’t talk to her about why you didn’t ask her in October, that will most likely create even more tension or issues.  Take your friend out for some coffee and say “Friend, I love you and I want to know if you will do me the honor of being a bridesmaid in my wedding.”  That’s it.

Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

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olivejd:  I agree with freckles – if you decide to ask her, don’t give reasons about why you didn’t ask her sooner. If she specifically asks about it, you could disclose, but don’t volunteer the information. It would probably start an argument.

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

I think she’d still be flattered to be asked! She may decline, but at least you tried. I’m usually the type to overcomplicate and overanalyze everything. Sometimes it’s better left simple. If she asks or makes a comment about why you didn’t ask her in October, you could lightheartedly say say it was just a misunderstanding. Otherwise, she’ll probably just be honored.

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