(Closed) Too many ceremonies?

posted 9 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2009

Hmmm, could you maybe do the letter box ceremony privately, before or after the wedding?  My husband and I wrote secret letter to each other for the wedding; we opened them on the way to the reception, and it was such a special moment.  If you have a few minutes after the ceremony to spend a little alone time, you could do it then.  Or maybe you could do the letter box ceremony at the reception?  I do agree that 4 ceremonies in the middle of the wedding ceremony seem like a lot…

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2009

I like the idea of making the letter box privately… Especially since it would be an awfully lot of ceremonies in one.  (If you are doing a first look, I’d say do it then!)

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I agree – that’s a lot of rituals to have in one ceremony.  You could do standard vows or simply say “I do,” and then exchange private notes or cards after or before the ceremony as well.

Though, honestly, it’s your wedding, and if you want to include the wine box in it – do it.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

It’s a lot of ceremonies/rituals, but every wedding I’ve gone to in the SW seems to have a lot (lasso ceremony, jaras (13 coins), unity candle, wedding vows, rings, praying to Mary, etc).  It just depends on what you want and what you feel is important to you as a couple.

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