(Closed) Too many choices?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
260 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I know what you mean! My BMs are all wearing the same dress that I chose but they can wear any shoes & jewelry they want and they can do their hair & makeup however they’d like. I guess this is more freedom than some girls are used to because I keep getting pics of shoes and hair especially and they ask what I think. I never say I don’t like something because I won’t be the one wearing it! Plus I trust them all to choose cute things based on their individual styles. I just wish some of the BMs would trust themselves too! I keep telling them whatever they choose will be fine.

Post # 4
57 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I am going through the EXACT SAME THING!!  I want each of my girls to look their best.  I mean I have a few BM’s dresses in my closet that I HATE and didn’t want to do that to my friends.  I happen to think that they are all hot and pictures are forever so why shouldn’t they look their best?   I picked the designer, color, fabric and length and they were supposed to pick their own style.  The kept asking me questions about which one I wanted them to where and they didn’t seem to realize that me saying that it really didn’t matter to me as long as they followed the parameters.  My Maid/Matron of Honor just wants me to pick a dress for her.  It is so frustrating!!  I completely agree with you that I don’t want to manage this part because, hello, I have a WEDDIN to plan.  I think they finally just realized that I truly do want them to pick their own dresses and to look their best and are all in the process of picking the dresses now.   I have no clue how the shoes and accessories will go.  I was thinking of making their jewelry for each dress style. 

I love the fact that they want to make my day my day, but I just want them to get dresses that they would wear again. 

Hugs! I hope it all goes well for you!

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