(Closed) Too many people in the wedding party?

posted 7 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: How many people should we have in the wedding party?
    4 - only siblings : (15 votes)
    33 %
    8 - siblings and 2 close friends on each side : (31 votes)
    67 %
  • Post # 3
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    7174 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    I don’t think it’s too many.  Ridiculous is the 40 person bridal party my Darling Husband was part of a few years back… 20 bm and 20 gm… crazy!

    Post # 4
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    3624 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    @oracle: seriously! that sounds insane! How could you even organize everyone! haaha… brave bride & groom I guess!!

    @Floridagirl2010: Nope! I don’t think that’s too many. But do what feels right!

    Post # 5
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    2714 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    You’re fine. 4 on each side isn’t too big for a small wedding!

    I never understood that anyways, ask whomever is closest to you to be in your party, no matter what the size of your wedding is!

    Unless of course you are having a 10 person wedding and THEN want 4 on each side. That might be a little odd. 😉

    Post # 6
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    5891 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2012

    as long as you have more people sitting and watching than standing next to you, i think you are good =)

    Post # 7
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    1537 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: April 2011

    I think that is a great number. We are doing 4 each as well and our guest list is about 60 too. Any more and you’d be pushing it, but then again look at the couples who have been apart of the greek system or something and have 10-15 each!

    Post # 8
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    151 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    I think 4 on each side is perfectly fine and not too many 🙂

    Post # 9
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    2742 posts
    Sugar bee

    It’s perfect. I don’t think it’s too much.

    Post # 10
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    2397 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    I think 4 on each side is just fine!  That’s a pretty common number of attendants. 

    Post # 11
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    9056 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    I think as long as there are more people sitting in the chairs than standing up front, you’re good!

    Post # 12
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    2790 posts
    Sugar bee

    I think that sounds fine. They are important so they should be seen as such. I never understand that measuring of how many bridal party members per # of guests. Do what ever you feel is right.

    Post # 13
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    197 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2011

    i think you can have as many as you want, regardless of the size of the wedding. It’s all about who you want to have standing beside you on your big day!

    Post # 14
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    10 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I think 4 is fine. I don’t think it matters how many people you have in your wedding. If you had 20 people who wanted to stand by your side and you only had 10 people as guests it wont matter as long as you and your husband to be are happy.

    Post # 15
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    2204 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    4 is perfect, especially considering half are family!

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