Too much cleavage ?

posted 3 months ago in Engagement
Post # 16
468 posts
Helper bee

I agree with the others above. If you have very conservative family and friend group, it might be a bit much. If you don’t, I think it’s a super cute photo of you two!

Post # 17
1480 posts
Bumble bee

Tbh…i don’t think I would have noticed. But I have bigger boobies so it’s not a big deal to me.

Post # 18
9138 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

I’m not a prude, but also don’t really care to see boobs, so I’d probably like another picture of you guys more. That said, I wouldn’t judge you for it since I know my dislike of boobs isn’t shared by most of the population 😂

Post # 19
877 posts
Busy bee

Too much. The bottom of your bra is visible. 

Post # 20
1558 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2019 - City, State

I see nothing wrong with either picture. 🤷🏻‍♀️ I wouldn’t even notice the amount of cleavage unless specifically asked what I think of your cleavage. And for the record, I think your boobs are bangin’  

Post # 21
136 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2020

My eye was distracted by the s u s h i. 🍣❤️❤️

I believe the photo is a beautiful shot of the two of you and personally would not be bothered. Your smile is the focal point of the photo for me. However, some of your recipients may be more conservative than I.

Post # 22
515 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2020 - New York, New York

It’s a lot of boob to me, but I usually don’t show cleavage. I would use another picture if it were me because I have a lot of family/relatives attending, but I think overall it’s a nice photo and you both look happy! 

You mentioned potentially photoshopping. Could the photopgrapher move your wine glass over an inch to the left to cover some cleavage? 

Post # 23
63 posts
Worker bee


KitKat2 :  Zoomed out, I focus on your faces, not your bust. However, it’s a LOT of boob. Do you normally wear low-cut tops? If so, your family is probably used to seeing your cleavage and they might not really care. If you normally cover up more, I’d chose a different pic UNLESS you don’t care if people zero in on that. People wear wedding dresses that are cut like that. I wouldn’t be comfortable doing so but it doesn’t mean they shouldn’t.

Post # 24
1399 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2021 - Kauai, HI

This is a gorgeous picture.  But for a STD, I’d say you have to either edit it or use something with less boob. Bee you are stunning. 

Post # 25
11783 posts
Sugar Beekeeper

There’s a time and place for everything. Too much. 

Post # 26
4482 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

At first, I would’ve said it’s too much, but when I saw the whole photo, all I saw was a happy couple dressed up, enjoying each other’s company – I wouldn’t have noticed your cleavage if you hadn’t asked us specifically about it.

Yeah, photoshop it to cover up the bra, but otherwise, it’s a great photo! And you said you plan to use other photos, as well, so if you’re concerned, maybe ensure the other photos don’t show as much cleavage to balance it out. 

(Granted, this is coming from a woman who doesn’t usually have much cleavage to show in the first place.)

Post # 27
6316 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 1997

Even with faces showing the boobs are front and center. But the photo could be cropped to just show the top part of the glass and only an inch of two of cleavage. Even without the sushi, it is a beautiful picture of the two of you. 

Post # 28
63 posts
Worker bee

echomomm :  Rather than cropping, what about editing in a banner that says “Save the Date” right across the bust?

Post # 29
9540 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2016

I don’t think it too much, they look fine to me.

Post # 30
8199 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: Dorset, UK

Maybe a little too much for the STD but if I looked like you I would make a thousand copies and paste them all over my neighborhood lol 

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