Post # 16
temeculabride : LOL @ “freebies!” haha
zzar45 : I wish! We both work full time and also run a small business on the side. We volunteer a lot in the community. Im currently running the big high school band fundraiser and hes on the parks and rec committee for our town. We tend to get drafted into helping with something. I coach cheerleading in fall for example.
We got to bed earlier because he wakes up early. Basically by 930/10pm we are laying in bed or on the couch cuddling. Thats our quality time and thats when the majority of sex happens 🙂 We arent usually actually going to sleep until 11:30ish
Post # 17
- Wedding: October 2020 - Las Vegas, NV
I was told my doctor to have sex every other day so the sperm have time to regenerate otherwise they may not be as plenty.
Post # 18
I have literally never heard of this, haha. Not dissing, just can’t even fathom it. If we tried to have sex 3 times in one evening it would feel less than ideal for me, and I can’t even see how a guy can get off that many times in a row on a daily basis!
Post # 19
sf618b : Thats what worried me. That we could affect quality/quantity. We will probably keep our normal routine to start but reduce if we dont concieve after a while.
No I dont orgasm every time. I would say 1-2x a day I cum. Thats good enough for me. I dont need this much sex, Id be happy with a little less… but I also dont mind all the sex. We bond and I enjoy it.
Hes a body builder so thats a natural testosterone boost for men. Im sure thats part of why at almost 35 he can do it over and over again lol. The weight lifting makes him super sexy 🙂
Post # 20
FutureMrsA2020 : Thank you. I think that was what I read about years ago. Appreciate you sharing.
Post # 21
Not related to your question but 3 times a day??? Oh my gosh! Haha, we have sex 3-4 times a week but it’s hard because I work night shift often on weekends and he’s on a Monday-Friday 9-5 schedule, plus I can’t do two nights in a row because I’m still pretty sore! Don’t know how you do it
Post # 22
sollyb : No worries! Im not suggesting everyone should do it this much. Whatever works for each couple 🙂
We are both 34 turning 35 but we are in great shape. I run and lift weights, he runs and is a body builder.
Last year I lost 30 lbs and I can say my energy and endurance for sex are a LOT higher than what they used to be. Im 5’0 so thats a lot of weight on my frame.
Post # 23
Seriously Bee… I have to applaud that..
Me and SO have not much else going on like, and I’d say we only do it 3 times a week FFS!
I guess by the time we head to bed at night we’re both knackered.. I’m gonna use you as motivation to spice things up a bit next week lol!
All joking aside, sorry I’ve no advice, but I guess the sperm count comments makes perfect sense!!
Post # 24
EllyAnne : Right? My husband got kicked a few months ago because he used his foot to nuzzle my foot while I was sleeping and hella tired. I didn’t even realize it until he told me when I woke up.
OP- I’m halfway inspired and halfway horrified. Can I ask- is every session good sex for you? Like do you finish every time or do you cum 1/2 the time or enjoy the sensations but not necessarily cum? Is it ever like brushing your teeth? Has this been your routine for most of your relationship or did the frequency increase since your kids got bigger? How long does it last? How annoying is the CLEAN UP?!
I really wish you were nearby so I could buy you a margarita (for national margarita day) and full on interview you!
Post # 25
Hanging out in bed is actually a really smart way to boost your sex life haha! My husband and I have sex way more frequently when we go to bed early and read rather than stay up watching a show.
When you’re already lying down and cuddling it’s not such a big step to just boop off your pants and cuddle…more.
Post # 26
Dunno about your TTC question, but how can I live in your universe which apparently has 36 hour days at least? 🙂
9 days postpartum here. What does this sex thing feel like? I’d like to try it again someday, I hear it’s pretty good, but my memories of it are so faint…
Post # 28
- Wedding: November 2018 - Australia
At first I thought you wrote 2-3 times a week and I thought that’s not a lot, and then I looked closely and saw that you wrote 2-3 times a day! WHAT? We sometimes have sex for a few consecutive days and I get sore! It also takes me progressively longer to get there each time!
Well, you have 3 kids already. Did you use to have sex as often? Clearly it’s working for you?
Post # 29
TwilightRarity : LOL. Fiance and I are cracking up at these responses. Its always been our normal. This is a second marriage so we didnt have our three kids together.
I do enjoy it I would say 95% of the time. I cum probably 60% of the time. I have a hard time cumming so actually I usually dont cum until the second time we do it unless he takes care of me first which he does regularly also. He wants me to enjoy it too and makes sure I do. There is probably 1-2x a month where Im tired or just not feeling it. On those nights we might only do it once but we usually do it more the next day so it ends up about the same. He never pressures me to do it, but I will go along usually even if Im not in the mood bc I end up getting in the mood and enjoying it.
We have busy lives and a lot going on. Its just a great way for us to be in our own little world at the end of each day. We can talk and cuddle and have sex and laugh and just connect with eachother. We both really treasure that time together and I think it keeps our connection and closeness very strong.
Though we have already talked about how a baby will limit us more. But I still think because its something we really value we will find a way, just probably less quantity for a couple years lol. Same for our gym time… its hard going back to baby land when you have kids who are old enough to stay home for an hour or two while you shop/work out, etc. Going to be a big change for us! LOL
wolfeyes : Yes! ladies hang out in bed and take your pants off. He is going to touch you and if you are open to it you’ll get in the mood.
techmom : LOL… there are seasons to life. Dont push yourself. We will hopefully be where you are in a year or two and we will be having a lot less sex for a little while 🙂
happynuts : I dont get sore, but I can only cum once per day most days. Sometimes Ill get lucky and cum more.
Our kids are from previous marriages. I personally never had this much sex before. He says he hasnt either. We are just really into eachother I guess! I figured early on that it would eventually fade to less… but it just never has. Now its so much a part of who we are that it would be weird not to do it this much. We would both miss it and be kinda sad
Post # 30
mel2 : I’ve not heard anything about too much sex, I think most doctors recommend every other day but that may be just so there’s higher chances than the 1x week crowd.
I have to say (I’m incredibly nosey), having sex 3x a day…surely you don’t have enough time for it to go on for ages? Is it like a 15min quickie or what??? I salute you for having that drive!