Too much sex?

posted 4 months ago in TTC
Post # 17
943 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2020 - Las Vegas, NV

I was told my doctor to have sex every other day so the sperm have time to regenerate otherwise they may not be as plenty. 

Post # 18
343 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2018

I have literally never heard of this, haha. Not dissing, just can’t even fathom it. If we tried to have sex 3 times in one evening it would feel less than ideal for me, and I can’t even see how a guy can get off that many times in a row on a daily basis! 

Post # 21
221 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2019

Not related to your question but 3 times a day???  Oh my gosh!  Haha, we have sex 3-4 times a week but it’s hard because I work night shift often on weekends and he’s on a Monday-Friday 9-5 schedule, plus I can’t do two nights in a row because I’m still pretty sore!  Don’t know how you do it

Post # 23
762 posts
Busy bee

Seriously Bee… I have to applaud that.. 

Me and SO have not much else going on like, and I’d say we only do it 3 times a week FFS!

I guess by the time we head to bed at night we’re both knackered.. I’m gonna use you as motivation to spice things up a bit next week lol!

All joking aside, sorry I’ve no advice, but I guess the sperm  count comments makes perfect sense!!

Post # 24
5770 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2016

EllyAnne :  Right? My husband got kicked a few months ago because he used his foot to nuzzle my foot while I was sleeping and hella tired. I didn’t even realize it until he told me when I woke up.

OP- I’m halfway inspired and halfway horrified. Can I ask- is every session good sex for you? Like do you finish every time or do you cum 1/2 the time or enjoy the sensations but not necessarily cum? Is it ever like brushing your teeth? Has this been your routine for most of your relationship or did the frequency increase since your kids got bigger? How long does it last? How annoying is the CLEAN UP?!

I really wish you were nearby so I could buy you a margarita (for national margarita day) and full on interview you!

Post # 25
2860 posts
Sugar bee

Hanging out in bed is actually a really smart way to boost your sex life haha! My husband and I have sex way more frequently when we go to bed early and read rather than stay up watching a show.

When you’re already lying down and cuddling it’s not such a big step to just boop off your pants and cuddle…more. 

Post # 26
685 posts
Busy bee

Dunno about your TTC question, but how can I live in your universe which apparently has 36 hour days at least? 🙂

9 days postpartum here. What does this sex thing feel like? I’d like to try it again someday, I hear it’s pretty good, but my memories of it are so faint…

Post # 27
364 posts
Helper bee

You go girl. 


Post # 28
362 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2018 -  Australia

At first I thought you wrote 2-3 times a week and I thought that’s not a lot, and then I looked closely and saw that you wrote 2-3 times a day! WHAT? We sometimes have sex for a few consecutive days and I get sore! It also takes me progressively longer to get there each time!

Well, you have 3 kids already. Did you use to have sex as often? Clearly it’s working for you?

Post # 30
88 posts
Worker bee

mel2 :  I’ve not heard anything about too much sex, I think most doctors recommend every other day but that may be just so there’s higher chances than the 1x week crowd.

I have to say (I’m incredibly nosey), having sex 3x a day…surely you don’t have enough time for it to go on for ages? Is it like a 15min quickie or what??? I salute you for having that drive!

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