(Closed) Too much to ask?…bit of a rant

posted 9 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 3
172 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I can’t imagine what your situation is like, but it sounds like you are definitely in one of those really tough places in life. Are there any options that can get you two at least closer to each other or have less time between visits? You might want to consider how long this will have to go on and whether there are any viable options – if it is palatable and will only be another little bit, maybe you could hold on. If it is going to be longer, maybe there are things you can compromise on? I know there are no easy answers. At the very least do you have any kind of support near you? 

Hang in there! This time will end and there will be better, easier days, even if you can’t see it now. *hugs*


Post # 4
53 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Really sorry to read you feel so conflicted. It must be terriibly overwhelming. It is only obvoius that a situation like that, even though I can’t even begin to fit your shoes on, would be terrible for anyone. Thing is, not many people could bare to stay through it. Which makes you a very special person. But it does sound like, regardless, hes having a much more harder time than you are. And it also sounds like this might just be one of those situations when you should really compromise some things, just to avoid giving him any more grief. Maybe having all those things to keep him occupied is actually good at this point. After all, you are really far away. So maybe you should see it the other way around: at least hes not alone in the process, even if that means you might feel like you are.

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