(Closed) Too white to wear for a wedding???

posted 5 years ago in Guests
Post # 31
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

I’m honestly shocked and a bit sad at people telling the poor OP that it’s too much cleavage. Is everyone expected to wear boatnecks these days and I missed the memo?

For what it’s worth, it’s gorgeous and I would love it if one of my guests wore that gorgeous frock to my wedding!

Post # 32
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Helper bee

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mandabride00 :  I was thinking the same thing. This dress is super cute and not inappropriate at all. It looks awesome on you, OP!

Post # 33
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

Whoof I disagree with almost everyone so far.

1) WAY too much white to be appropriate for a wedding. wear literally any other color but white. 

2) You look awesome in that dress and people saying there’s too much cleavage must be nuns. You look bangin.

Rock that sh!t. Just not at a wedding. 

Post # 34
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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mandabride00 :  
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aa625 :  wow I guess I shouldn’t have worn this to a wedding on Saturday!  I’m on the left. I’m such an attention seeker lol, look at my boobs! 

Post # 35
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Buzzing bee

I don’t think the cleavage or cut of the dress is a problem, but it’s 90% white. I wouldn’t wear it, personally. 

Post # 36
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Honey bee

 

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aa625 :  Seems like there are some jealous bees around here…you look smokin, and that dress is not too white at all. I know a girl who wears solid white, lace even, to like every wedding. Nobody has bothered correcting her, so seriously this is tame compared to that. A colored cardi could certainly help if you’re nervous, but not necessary.

Post # 37
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Blushing bee

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mandabride00 :  I was kind of thinking the same. Been to so many weddings in the past few years and seen a lot more cleavage than this one and nobody bats an eye. But I wonder if it’s just different depending where you live?

Post # 38
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

I wouldn’t think it’s an issue. But bring a colored cardigan!

Post # 39
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2015 - Hotel Ballroom

I’m on the fence..but it is really cute anyways!

Post # 40
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Busy bee

OP! WEAR THE DRESS! You look amazing. I have similar dresses. I have worn them to weddings. It’s not too white. I say all white is too white but anything with a busy pattern is not competing with the bride, especially a knee length dress. We have similar body types, minus the cleavage and if I had your boobs i would let them say hi too. They aren’t even that exposed. It’s classy cleavage versus trashy cleavage. I think the difference in opinions are due to bees living in more conservative areas. But I do agree that if you will feel self conscious wear something else…

Post # 41
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer\'s Beach, Grand Cayman

It’s fine. I’ve worn white with a dark floral pattern before and I’ve seen it worn many times, it’s pretty common for summer weddings and as long as it isn’t full length or looks bridal in any way I don’t see why it’s an issue.

Post # 42
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2016

it look’s good. anything floral dress no matter what color is usually good for a summer wedding 🙂

Post # 43
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

That’s a lot of bright white. I personally wouldn’t wear it. Colored shawl/cardigan would be a good way to balance it.

Post # 44
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Busy bee

Nice dress but I wouldn’t wear it to a wedding. 

Post # 45
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Blushing bee

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pammylammy :  it has to be. Some Bees on here go on about the strangest things but i just think it must be different all over. I’m kinda glad I live where I do after being on here; I can have a wishing well (honey fund?) in place of gifts, not invite plus 1s without guilt and show my boobies if I want to! Hahaha 

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