Took your advice, UPDATE (together 3.5 years)

posted 9 months ago in Waiting
Post # 32
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778 posts
Busy bee

 

“delete my account”?

Lol! Wow, can’t just trust herself to leave and NOT return, huh!

Post # 33
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2017

queenie8119 :  I don’t think it’s that so much as shit got real that this guy is dragging his feet and marriage may not happen. 

I remember her old post, she got a little defensive when she was advised that she should just ask him about marriage!   Now she plucked up the courage to do just that and was given a bogus excuse by him.  He was evidently a “picture painter” and said all the things  that she wanted to hear about marriage at the beginning. Years go by,  he’s almost 40 and now is avoiding/ delaying/ making excuses.

  She doesn’t want to face it.  Our responses were making her look at what is happening, it got too painful for her I guess.   I wonder if he was the reason ie insinuated/ told her that she is “bipolar”& difficult without a formal diagnosis too….. blaming herself for his lack of commitment could suit his purpose…

Post # 34
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Busy bee

mrstodd2bee :  Wait… he’s 40 and STILL on the fence? 

She should do him a favour and push him over. AWAY from herself. 

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