Torn on elopement, not sure what I want

posted 7 months ago in Elopement
Post # 16
930 posts
Busy bee

birefringence :  Ive considered elopement as well. Id elope and have a nice honeymoon, and come back and have a get together with friends and fam or whomever just to celelbrate it with them a little. 


Post # 18
156 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: February 2019

birefringence :  Thanks I’m glad it was useful to you. We got super lucky with the venue, we booked it, because it was the only resort in the country, but it turned out to be beautiful. Yes there were a lot of coconut crabs scuttering around at night!

I dreamed last night that I met a couple who regretted their wedding, I told them wedding regret is normal you have to decide to just embrace your decision. 

There are so many ways to get married, the most important thing is to marry the right person, how you get married doesn’t really matter.

I don’t love a bunch of my wedding photos, but I know when me and the hubby look at them when we are old and wrinkly we will have fond memories, so I’m not fixating on not liking most of my photos. I also didn’t love my dress, because I had it custom made in 10 days and didn’t turn out how I imagined and I had no time for adjustments, but now it sits in the wardrobe waiting to sell on eBay, so I’m over that too.

I get to see my husband everyday though and he is awesome! The husband is the most important part. And the ring, you wear that everyday.

Good luck with with your decision, being married is awesome!


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