(Closed) Totally confused…

posted 5 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

M DeetroitWhat and Her Husband 


Post # 4
9916 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

@deetroitwhat:  I love Bed, Bath, and Beyound!  It’s like…ever better than Bed, Bath, and Beyond!  It’s…OUT of this WOURLD!

Post # 6
1582 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

@deetroitwhat:  Mr. and Mrs. Deetroitwhat in the M line and I think you should put a 2 in the will attend line….looks like they messed up the order.

Post # 8
13248 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

wow.  I’d put in an adjective, but it’s pretty clearly a typo. 

Post # 10
3424 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Weird wording…Mrs. Deetroitwhat and husband Will Definitely (or not) Attend…Blah blah blah. 



ETA: I feel like Rsvps need to come with instructions these days=

Post # 14
719 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014 - South Bonson Pier & Community Centre

@abbie017:  +1 I agree. Silly RSVPs are far more entertaining to receive.

Post # 15
40 posts
  • Wedding: May 2013

The “Will ____ Attend” is actually not a typo, but that doesn’t mean I understand why it would be put that way! In the invitation books I was looking through that was the standard way the RSVP card was written for the super traditional brands. 

Post # 16
1696 posts
Bumble bee

@deetroitwhat:  Not a typo, but definitely NOT super traditional, and I shudder to think how the glory of traditionalism has been tarnished, that anyone could imagine reply-forms as being traditional. Alas!

What you are supposed to do, in a less-imperfect world, is toss the reply card in the recycling bin, take out your own personalized stationery, envelope and stamp, and hand-write in an impeccable script

“Mr and Mrs What
accept with pleasure the kind invitation of
Mr and Mrs Host
to the wedding of
Miss Bride and Mr Groom
on the eighteenth of May at Saint Mary’s Church
at three o’clock”

or alternately that Mr and Mrs What reglet to decline the kind invitation &tc.

If you insist on using the little card, you hand-write “r and Mrs What” in the line preceded by the “M” which takes the place of the “M” in “Mr”, and you leave the second line blank, unless you are declining in which case you write “not” in it.

As for their invitation, their bigger error was thinking they had any need to write the words “Bed, Bath, and Beyond (or Beyound)” in the first place.

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